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OK so imma say my peace and then the shit once and for all. Y’all ready!
So first of all I’d like to thank all the girls who reached out to me and told me their interactions or interactions that they know that other women who have had with this crazy ass nigga been. I’ll keep all your identities confidential.
I also wanna say that I actually don’t care who believes me. If you want to get involved with his crazy ass nigga, proceed with caution and don’t say I didn’t tell you though!
Jaime hit me up over a month ago after we matched on hinge, I’m pretty sure that we matched on other dating sites. Jaime was extremely persistent & pretty annoying as fuck, i’m pretty much always straight to the point and I know what I want so I didn’t really waste time
I quickly asked what he was looking for. Jaime told me that he was looking for something casual. I responded that that is not what I’m looking for as I would like something more serious & suggested we shouldn’t talk anymore. Bc he’s crazy, he clearly didn’t get the message.
A few hours after I politely told this guy that I’m not interested in talking to him anymore he hit me up saying that he wants to see me that weekend. Given that I just said that we’re not looking for the same thing I’m not trying to waste my time.
He continued to text me to which I believe that I just stopped responding. At one point I found a a little bit charming but it soon became extremely twisted and just irritating. He clearly doesn’t know how to leave people alone even when they express they wanna be left alone.
That was the first red flag. Fast forward a couple weeks and Jaime texts me AGAIN. This time he doesn’t introduce himself he just texts me something like “hey”. Clearly I did not save his number so I asked who it was.
I guess that this pisses off Jaime he starts throwing a mini temper tantrum. I was curious as to who was was so I looked on my MacBook and quickly found out that it was him. Because he started responding so angrily I asked him why he was being bitter
I don’t save guys numbers especially when I haven’t met them yet so I’m not really sure y he started acting up but I tell him that I know it’s him, he gets a little bit defensive and I explain to him that I don’t know what part of I didn’t wanna talk to him he didn’t understand.
This delusional Negro starts telling me that he’s sorry because he’s realized that I’ve moved on and this is when I start to become really confused because who the fuck are you???
Moved on from what? We were never seriously talking and if he thinks we were he’s absolutely mad. To this, I did not respond to him because I realize that he’s a little bit off in the head.
A couple weeks later he pops up on my hinge again, demands me to clear my schedule the next day so he can take me out. I will admit that the date went well even though he showed up pretty late and was rude when he arrived.
When he drops me back home we talked for a little bit he gives me a hug he then gets out of his car to give me a hug and we kiss. But hold up what happens next? We are in the middle of the street and this man starts grabbing my boobs without my consent.
And yes it was clearly obviously without my consent because when he touched my boob I pull back away and I told him to slow down. This turned me off so much and yes you do have to ask for my consent before touching me but he wouldn’t know a thing about that.
The next day comes around and p the entire day he is having conversations with me that are incredibly and overly sexual. This is where I started to get a little bit uncomfortable because although I was attracted to him it seems like sex was the only topic of conversation
He then start asking me to send him nudes and I sent many messages that make it very clear that I was uncomfortable with that but he continue to ask me about it and pressure me until I did.
All he would talk about issex. To which I finally decided to tell him that I don’t really wanna have sex with him because I think it will complicate things . now he’s on Twitter making it appear as if I was hell-bent on having sex with him. Incorrect. Af.
Jaime is your textbook definition of a groomer and manipulator he tries to change my mind by saying that “we’re so comfortable with each other” he also tells me that “it feels like we’ve known each other for ages” so he can get in my pants. All he does is pressure me.
Lets fast forward I’m not trying to be here all night we do end up being intimate on Sunday. He doesn’t turn me at all which led to some issues. He kisses me a couple times he leaves and text me when he gets home.
In less than 24 hours Jaime turns it into this completely angry ass person when I jokingly make a comment that his meeting is long and he completely loses his shit. This is a 25-year-old man? Nothing should make you that angry and he also admits that he was wrong so I don’t know
I don’t know why he’s trying to portray me as needy or annoying, he only said these things to gaslight me and make me feel like I was crazy and if you know anything about psychology you know that this is what abusers do.
When I told him that nothing I said warranted that response, he agreed. So I’m not even sure what the fuck he’s talking about now. I’m also not sure why he’s trying to make it appear he cut me off when I’m actually the one that broke things off with him.
After he was completely disrespectful to me and pretty much weaponized my own mental health against me when I open up to him about this a few days prior, I came to the conclusion that he is trash and a bit deranged and there was nothing else left to say or talk about with him.
I tried talking to him & Forgiving him for blatantly disrespecting me and acting out of pocket but I really already made my mind up that I didn’t want to talk to him or see him again once I reflected on all his asinine behaviors.
To this end, I did read him for filth but because his behaviors were so crazy I was just really curious to see if anyone knew him or knew about his rather strange behaviors and I got an overwhelming amount of responses.
I don’t know if I already said this but he did something while we were intimate which I did not consent to and given what I know now I’m not surprised. When I tell him im not interested he acts cool im the midst of his craziness which irritates me further.
Another important fact is that Jaime lied to me about when he last got tested and when was the last time he was sexually with somebody but I didn’t discover this until today. So before you ask why I am angry ask yourself whether or not you would be angry about that shit.
So I was curious. I wanted to know if this guy has a track record and he does. So I’m gonna post screenshots and keep the information of the senders private just so you can get a glimpse into who this dude is!
I’m receiving messages upon messages and I get into a FaceTime 3-way where I find out he was talking to a close friends, friend in a completely different state. We’re all on FaceTime together. I am protecting identities because I’m not trying to drag anyone into this.
