This angers me a lot about gender theory: I don’t want to have to be a they/them, non binary, gender queer or fluid just to be treated like a person. Gender theory tells girls that if they feel uncomfortable with the idea of being women then the problem is with them.
Girls should change themselves, their appearance, their gender, their pronouns in order to be treated as something other than a pink plastic cum dumpster. And transwomen and male NBs who prance about in heels and hotel curtains are telling these girls that being a
lipstick dripping male fantasy is exactly what womanhood is about. They love that idea of womanhood, they are ready and willing to embrace it. So if these girls don’t want to grow up to be treated like that, then they’d better get out of womanhood
as fast and as far as they can. This tells girls that the problem with their feelings about womenhood is in them instead of a society that continues to objectify, coerce, degrade and destroy the female sex en masse. The problem is not in you my dears. It has always been them.
Their envy, their jealousy, their greed and their need to control. Their fear of how much they need you and their anger at how little you need them. They will make you feel like your body and your femaleness are worthless because how else can they get you to trade
your name, your future, your life giving power - for an existence chained to their demands and their dreams. They will try to make you feel small because it’s the only way they can feel big.
The problem has never been about being a women. The problem is when you will not be the woman they want you to be.