I want nothing more than for a lot of you lesbians to develop an analysis of gender and sexuality that goes beyond your and your partners genitals and harassing strangers online. I want straight women and heteronormative bisexuals to stay the fuck out our business.

Y'all create all of these ridiculous ass rules about how people can dress, who they can fuck, how people should behave in relationships, who can use tampons??? and everything else and don't realize how harmful that shit is to all of us.

Y'all have so much internalized misogyny and be transphobic as fuck doing the work of patriarchy.

If you didn't know: Not all dykes are women, not all dykes are lesbians, being a lesbian doesn't absolve you of being misogynistic, not dating trans people IS transphobic, there are people that do not exist within the gender binary and gender roles are ARBITRARY.

If you're a dyke and you don't wanna suck dick...fine. If you're a stud and you don't like taking strap...fine. If you're a femme and you don't eat pussy...fine. But y'all have got to stop getting on this mf and acting like your existence is the only one that's valid.

If you want a 5'10 muscle bound dyke to dick you down every night and that's how you live, keep doing that sis but why get online and judge other people for not wanting that? What do you achieve?

Gender is a construct. It exists as long as we uphold it. As soon as y'all let go of the idea that someone's gender is associated with their personality, we'll all be better off.

And nobody asked but imma say if you come near me expecting me to behave like a man, you're doing me and yourself a disservice.

I am a non-binary lesbian. I like cis women, trans women, non-binary women, dykes, studs, femmes, all of that. I am not a big hard ass nigga. I'm a 5'4 fat dyke that talks too much. I'm not moving your stove. Do not project gender roles or gender at all onto me.

Cis people are annoying as fuck to talk to about gender and sexuality because most of y'all have never had to be introspective and actually think about who you are and why you are the way you are. Being queer but also being trans is not like that.

I'm begging y'all pick up a book, put on a podcast, read an essay, follow some new fucking people that don't just gas up the stupid shit y'all say because they wanna eat your ass. Do yourself and the rest of us a favor and use the brain god gave you and mind your own pussy.