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My ex get horn cus she look for that eh and anybody who hear that story does agree.
How you go watch your man who living south and tell him you never thought you’d of had to come south for yourself to meet him? https://twitter.com/stardappa1/status/1321238276569784326">https://twitter.com/stardappa...
How you go watch your man who living south and tell him you never thought you’d of had to come south for yourself to meet him? https://twitter.com/stardappa1/status/1321238276569784326">https://twitter.com/stardappa...
You living Morvant I living South, from the beginning I was the one making all the effort to come see you and rightly so cus I was the man, I had access to the vehicle and you said you didn’t like to travel but that didn’t matter to me at the time
My mindset was I love my girl and she has my back (so I thought) so anything to make her happy I would do and the drive use to be nothing to me cus there is nowhere in Trinidad I consider as too far to reach
So anyway yea so every time we hada go out whether it be somewhere on the Northside or South I use to go pick her up home, we’d go out, I drop her back home then is head back down south that was every time we went out
Out of all those times we went out and we were relating for like a year eh we dated for like a few months then I asked her to be my gf. Of all those trips not once she offered to pay a has nothing inno but at the time that didn’t bother me cus I was doin this for sum one I love
Oh and was every weekend eh because she use to say “she miss me and find she wasn’t seeing me enough” so every weekend I was up that highway till she said one day is not enough she need to see me more so twice the week I was up and down that highway
Now again in my head I not seeing all that driving as anything cus I’m getting to see and spend time with my girl, we in a long distance that already hard so I din mind nun the problem arose when one of the vehicles got bounced
Ok so some backstory. I don’t own a vehicle but my parents have 2 and my brother in law has a vehicle and we have a relationship that I can jus tell them I wanna burrow the vehicle and they jus say take the keys so I use be goin up there with 3 dif vehicles
Right so back to the accident it so happen that sumbody bounce my brother in laws car so he has to carry it in the garage but as I say my fam have a understanding relationship. So my parents was like take one of our vehicles till he got his fixed
So now we down to jus 2 vehicles at home so me knowing that I went to my ex and said,”I may not be able to see her as often as we used to” and her reply was,” ok” Now in my mind I was like that’s all you have to say?
Then I asked her out loud to clarify and her response was...
Then I asked her out loud to clarify and her response was...
Her: “Yea “ok” what else you want me say
Me: Well I was expecting a “dw babe we’ll wrk sum out maybe I can come south to meet you sometimes”
Her: “well I never thought that I’d ever have to come south”
Me: “so where do I live?”
Her: “you suppose to do da you is d man.”
SUPPOSE?
Me: Well I was expecting a “dw babe we’ll wrk sum out maybe I can come south to meet you sometimes”
Her: “well I never thought that I’d ever have to come south”
Me: “so where do I live?”
Her: “you suppose to do da you is d man.”
SUPPOSE?
So she was comfortable with me not seeing her as often as I used to once it didn’t involve her coming down south.
And I believe it was there things started going left with us because everyday from then use to be a argument, the energy shifted for me.
And I believe it was there things started going left with us because everyday from then use to be a argument, the energy shifted for me.
The energy I thought she was giving back was really me giving full 100 and carrying the whole relationship on my own. So I’d try to show her that and we’d argue, she’d play victim and I was starting to see a selfishness that apparently love use to blind for me
I never just gave up tho I was trying to work things out cus I wanted the relationship but somehow the two energies were still clashing.
While that was going on there was started to send current my way at first I blocked it because I was still fighting to make what I had work
While that was going on there was started to send current my way at first I blocked it because I was still fighting to make what I had work
But as my and her argued i drifted further and further away from the will to continue fighting and started to way pros and cons of this other person who sending my this good energy:
1. She lived a stone throw away
2. She have her own car
That was basically it more convenient
1. She lived a stone throw away
2. She have her own car
That was basically it more convenient
It came to a point where it was like I was gettin the reciprocated energy I wanted from this person I jus met than from my gf where it suppose to come from that is what SUPPOSE to happen. So me and that person kept in communication, started to lime, then eventually started to jam
Now in my mind I was already done with that relationship I just didn’t tell her cus I wanted to do it in person maybe I should of before I started jamin someone else but I wasn’t going to refuse good energy jus to be respectful to someone selfish.
As soon as I started jamin that person tho like a sum days after I ended it tho I never stringed her along. So alyuh hear the story
Tell me what alyuh think
Tell me what alyuh think
Oh and me and my ex never had sex for the time we were together which was almost a year. She had told me from the beginning that she didn’t want a relationship built on sex and that she was a virgin.
Didn’t believe that but I respected it cus I truly wanted to see where things would of gone for us and it was going good, I never cheated up until to the point where things started to go left, never tried to initiate sex, we were building our relationship on substantial things
To me I was doing all the right things as a boyfriend carrying 95% of the load willingly and the one time I was hoping she’d have my back and take sum load she thought about herself and thats what lead to her getting horn
