In a show that actually has an emotional abuse narrative and shows you what all of it looks like, you are misreading the show so poorly if you think any other character besides Shadow Weaver is an emotional abuser

(H*rd*k is a different story, more physical than emotional, and also I don't want to talk about him, ever)

Also for the love of god please stop throwing around the word abuse lightly I'm so tired of "[character] does a funny joke to another character for a comedic thing that even the effected character doesn't care about IS ACTUALLY EMOTIONAL ABUSE?????" like... no. Sit down.

"This moment intended to be comedic reminds me of hurtful things that people have said / done to me and it makes me uncomfortable" is a way better take and way easier to understand rather than "this whole character is problematic"

also affected* on that last tweet