You don't gotta do shit and family will not always be there for you just bc they're family. I wish people would let that shit go.

Some families are toxic and abusive as hell. You don't owe them an acceptance for their apology if you don't want it. https://twitter.com/drvppyjai/status/1321084687108968448

And stop with this "you only get one mom/dad" bullshit. Your biological parent isn't more important than the parent that loves you and treats you right. Whether that be a parent who chose you or you chose them.

And those with parents who have passed need to stop guilt tripping people who don't fuck with their parents.

Being without a parent that you love is hard, no doubt, but y'all be projecting that onto people who do not have the same relationship you had with your parents. If someone mama is toxic and mean, they don't have to ignore it just bc she may be gone one day.

Sis can get it together and treat her kids right or be alone until she does. If your parents passes before ever doing right by you, you aren't wrong and have no reason to feel guilty for not ignoring the hurt just to say you were still in communication when they died