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“Don’t judge a book by its cover”
This applies to to every thing and person you encounter
But how many people actually follow this rule?
Pretty much no one
QUICK THREAD on why, and what to do about it
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This applies to to every thing and person you encounter
But how many people actually follow this rule?
Pretty much no one
QUICK THREAD on why, and what to do about it
Whether it’s a book, a person, a food, or almost anything else, your initial judgment is based on your first sight of it
Interesting cover? The book must be interesting
Attractive person? I want to meet them
Good looking food? I’d love to try it
Interesting cover? The book must be interesting
Attractive person? I want to meet them
Good looking food? I’d love to try it
Your subconscious mind is working at all times
Whether you want to judge something or not, your mind is going to when it first sees it
No matter how much you believe you shouldn’t judge a book by its cover
Whether you want to judge something or not, your mind is going to when it first sees it
No matter how much you believe you shouldn’t judge a book by its cover
You can do everything in your power to stop judging this way, and you’ll eventually become less judgmental
But one thing you must learn:
Most people aren’t going to try very hard to override their subconscious mind
So they will be judging everything at first sight
But one thing you must learn:
Most people aren’t going to try very hard to override their subconscious mind
So they will be judging everything at first sight
You shouldn’t care what other people think about you
But you should care about how you present yourself
A healthy presentation will lead to:
- More friends
- More connections
- More opportunities
- More happiness
But you should care about how you present yourself
A healthy presentation will lead to:
- More friends
- More connections
- More opportunities
- More happiness
The best part is, it’s not that hard to be a more presentable person
Here are 5 ways to ensure your presentation isn’t holding you back:
Here are 5 ways to ensure your presentation isn’t holding you back:
1. Smile more
Smiling is simply a more attractive and positive look than not
Do it, and more people will want to talk to you and associate with you
Trust in the power of a smile
Smiling is simply a more attractive and positive look than not
Do it, and more people will want to talk to you and associate with you
Trust in the power of a smile
2. Get in shape
You don’t have to have a perfect diet or perfect body
But you should be healthy enough that people wouldn’t describe you as “out of shape”
Even though it’s not always the case, people tend to judge those who are not fit as “lazy”
Don’t get categorized this way
You don’t have to have a perfect diet or perfect body
But you should be healthy enough that people wouldn’t describe you as “out of shape”
Even though it’s not always the case, people tend to judge those who are not fit as “lazy”
Don’t get categorized this way
3. Practice good hygiene
This one is obvious
If you are dirty or smell bad, people won’t want to hang out with you
Simple as that
This one is obvious
If you are dirty or smell bad, people won’t want to hang out with you
Simple as that
4. Wear clothes that fit you
If your clothes are too big or too small for you, you’ll look funny
And people will judge you for it
Find the right fitting clothes, and don’t wear bad fits in public
If your clothes are too big or too small for you, you’ll look funny
And people will judge you for it
Find the right fitting clothes, and don’t wear bad fits in public
5. Practice good posture
Good posture exudes confidence
Confidence leads to positive judgement
Stand up straight
Keep your shoulders back
Keep your head level
And let your arms hang by your sides
It’ll make a huge difference
Good posture exudes confidence
Confidence leads to positive judgement
Stand up straight
Keep your shoulders back
Keep your head level
And let your arms hang by your sides
It’ll make a huge difference
You can stop judging people by their initial appearance as much as you want
But everyone else is going to continue to judge
Let them, and give yourself an advantage by following the rules in this thread
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But everyone else is going to continue to judge
Let them, and give yourself an advantage by following the rules in this thread
Sometimes your cover makes all the difference