1/ Inspired by @RisuToInu & @NessaTahmin tweets I’m going to tell you a little story...
When I was working as a NEETs coordinator in East London, almost all of my students had severe Social Emotional & Mental Health needs & the borough I was working in was 1 of the most
When I was working as a NEETs coordinator in East London, almost all of my students had severe Social Emotional & Mental Health needs & the borough I was working in was 1 of the most
2/ deprived in the country. Around 7 years ago, this was when London street violence really started in increase with stabbing, shooting & the new trend, acid attacks becoming terrifying more common.
Out of my students, there was 1 young man ‘Mark’ (not his real name) who I will
Out of my students, there was 1 young man ‘Mark’ (not his real name) who I will
3/ never forget. Mark was an 17 year old who was a suspected drug dealer & had a big reputation in the area. Mark was as thin as a rake, with a mind like a steel-trap. Observant, decisive & logical he was a guy that everyone would listen to. Luckily
4/ Mark & I got on & he helped me control the group.
Mark was on the radar of the Youth Offending Team & there were various agencies trying to get involved to help.
One time I was teaching about different career options in my class & Mark was unusually irritated. He was more
Mark was on the radar of the Youth Offending Team & there were various agencies trying to get involved to help.
One time I was teaching about different career options in my class & Mark was unusually irritated. He was more
5/ disruptive & disrespectful than normal. I confronted him in class & he said to me “working a normal job is a mug’s game. Only idiots do that.”
This started a debate that I’ll never forget.
I made my point that working is something that is noble, you have peace of mind &
This started a debate that I’ll never forget.
I made my point that working is something that is noble, you have peace of mind &
6/ you can provide nice things for your family. I encouraged him to go to University & get a new life. He replied the following:
* Peace of mind? Every adult that he knew was always stressed about money & if they will keep their job
* All the drug dealers that he knew made more
* Peace of mind? Every adult that he knew was always stressed about money & if they will keep their job
* All the drug dealers that he knew made more
7/ money in a day than some people would make in a month.
* He explained that his elder cousin went to university to study a law degree but couldn’t get a placement & could only find a job in Waitrose & is 27k in debt
* He said that they chase the drug dealers but it’s the banks
* He explained that his elder cousin went to university to study a law degree but couldn’t get a placement & could only find a job in Waitrose & is 27k in debt
* He said that they chase the drug dealers but it’s the banks
8/ that are the real criminals as they gambled their money away during the Credit Crunch & got us the tax payers to pay for it. He called it the ‘greatest robbery in history’
* He explained that we were less than 10 miles from Canary Wharf, London’s financial heart
* He explained that we were less than 10 miles from Canary Wharf, London’s financial heart
9/ but none of that wealth ever touched their area & they don’t care about the kids in their area. Plus those were the people that bought & sold the drugs that ended up on the street.
* He cussed the schools saying that the subjects that he learnt had no bearing to his reality
* He cussed the schools saying that the subjects that he learnt had no bearing to his reality
10/ I.e Henry 8th wives don’t mean s#*$ to me.
* He believed that music, sports & drugs were the only way out for kids like him.
I was stunned.
When I told him that drug dealing would lead him to death or jail he shrugged & said “everyone has to go sometime.” & walked out.
* He believed that music, sports & drugs were the only way out for kids like him.
I was stunned.
When I told him that drug dealing would lead him to death or jail he shrugged & said “everyone has to go sometime.” & walked out.
11/ At the end of the day, that conversation shook me to my core. How could he be so nihilistic & he has barely started Life?
But he was right. How can we preach to kids the right way when there are so many injustices in our system?
But he was right. How can we preach to kids the right way when there are so many injustices in our system?
12/ When Austerity hit, our centre was forced to close because we lost budget.
As the violence increased in London over the years, I often think about what that young man said & think about the lost souls on the streets because the system is rigged against
As the violence increased in London over the years, I often think about what that young man said & think about the lost souls on the streets because the system is rigged against
13/ certain groups of people. I know a lot of young people who did all the right things like go to uni & behave themselves only to be locked out of the higher arenas of life because they don’t have the cultural capital or connections to get them to their dreams.
14/ it breaks my heart & that’s why we need out the box thinking to engage these young people before they become a lost generation.
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