Too many beautiful women in this world for me not to bag a gorgeous queen but physical appearance isn't even top five on my checklist.

Gotta be an animal to choose a partner solely off their physical appearance.

Let me put it this way.. A person's "Values" like integrity, loyalty, compassion etc is their first love. It's the standards or principles that they hold most dearly.
People's "values" determine what they'll do when under pressure like "Nnamdi" in living in bondage. Gotta note it

Another thing has to be "Virtues" and Values give birth to virtues you see. So if someone values truth, they'll be honest, if they value justice, they'll be fair but if it is money/material things they love the most, they'll exchange anything including their conscience for money.

Another thing to look out for is their "worldview". Worldview is basically someone's train of thought, phylosophy or perspective on life. The two dominant world views are "Idealism" and "Materialism".

I'm an idealist and I definitely won't settle for a materialist.

...I can keep going but all I'm saying is that ...the physical and material things, people focus on are temporal because they soon change and fade away but the deeper things of life that we tend to overlook are the things that we live for afterwards.