Girl tried to disprove male privilege.

Let’s deconstruct!

[A Thread] https://twitter.com/themolelady_/status/1305019202969899015
What parallel reality does this person live in? What you’ve described is cheating - for both genders.

What you’ve ignored is that women are regularly slut-shamed & receive r@pe threats - does this happen to men? Go look at male celebs & find some proof.

https://twitter.com/themolelady_/status/1305019205926842369?s=21
It was PATRIARCHY that defined the gender roles with men being the designated bread-earners.

In return men got access to positions of power, education, employment etc. - things women have had to fight for. https://twitter.com/themolelady_/status/1305019208388939783
“There are so many boys who don’t go to school.” - Agreed.

But madam, there are far more girls who don’t go to school. Check the data before tweeting maybe? https://twitter.com/themolelady_/status/1305019210972540928
Unemployed men are not getting married?

Again, the answer is PATRIARCHY.

Why don’t you talk about how when the groom's income, especially when it was more than that of the bride increased the premium of dowry?

http://ijsw.tiss.edu/greenstone/collect/ijsw/index/assoc/HASH0103/b164a59b.dir/doc.pdf https://twitter.com/themolelady_/status/1305019213610848256
The answer is once again, PATRIARCHY.

You so realise that it is not women issuing this threat?

The way you’ve worded it makes it seem that you know the male members of the family are the ones threatening. It’s all about claiming ownership over women. https://twitter.com/themolelady_/status/1305019216072826883
Yet again: PATRIARCHY!

We don’t have laws to protect male victims of sexual harassment is because patriarchy has put women as the one needing protection - patriarchy doesn’t recognise that men can be victims or need protection.

Check this thread: https://twitter.com/ks_notanicegirl/status/1320264816078979072?s=21 https://twitter.com/themolelady_/status/1305019218518142976
Darling, it’s easy for men to not get accused of verbal harassment & rape threats: don’t harass & abuse women.

Why don’t you look at how extremely dangerous it is for women before you start whining about how hard poor innocent men have it online? https://twitter.com/TheMoleLady_/status/1305019220959272961
Girls don’t care if the guy is comfortable? Are you telling me guys care about a woman’s consent online?

Even the ones who want fraandship & say send bobs & vagene?

I shouldn’t have to attach evidence for this, but I still will, just in case some idiots don’t know about this. https://twitter.com/TheMoleLady_/status/1305019223425523712
How are mohalle ki CCTV aunties exclusively a male problem?

They anyway tend to police mohalle ki daughters more than they monitor mohalle ke sons. https://twitter.com/themolelady_/status/1305019225996574720
Equally unsafe? Is this woman kidding me?

I guess you’ve never left your little bubble of privilege, darling. Check the rape statistics in India.

Even men won’t agree that it is EQUALLY UNSAFE for men & women outside during night time in India. https://twitter.com/themolelady_/status/1305019228525719553
This innocent sheltered little girl has probably never heard of PATRIARCHY.

Boys are questioned, women are murdered for honour. Yes, men are too, but the scale is different.

Data on intimate partner/family related homicide:
64% women vs 36% men

https://www.unodc.org/documents/data-and-analysis/GSH2018/GSH18_Gender-related_killing_of_women_and_girls.pdf https://twitter.com/themolelady_/status/1305019231201710087
And yet again, we need to talk about PATRIARCHY.

When male victims come forward they are questioned about their sexual orientation & masculinity - all this stems from patriarchal notions of society which portrays men as strong & macho.

Relinking thread: https://twitter.com/ks_notanicegirl/status/1320264816078979072?s=21 https://twitter.com/themolelady_/status/1305019233772777473
3 points:

- every woman who has ever travelled on public transport has been harassed/molested/touched at least once.

- men are under no obligation to give up their seats

- the two problems are not even comparable: the first is sexual harassment, the second is mere discomfort. https://twitter.com/TheMoleLady_/status/1305019236352364544
The scale of sexual violence against men & women is vastly different.

And male victims not being believed or ridiculed is an after-effect of patriarchy.

Please refer to earlier tweets. This is getting tiring. How long is this non-sensical thread 🥴 https://twitter.com/themolelady_/status/1305019238839582725
“Nobody cares about what you’re wearing nowadays 🤡🤡🤡

Yet to find such explicit comments on male celebs who post shirtless pictures: (links attached to check for yourself)

Shahid: https://www.instagram.com/p/B_yx_K2n6xC/?igshid=ljytkaaf24if

Tiger: https://www.instagram.com/p/CCVs55vH6-H/?igshid=1nur67igqmez0

Hrithik: https://www.instagram.com/p/B8x7tQqntmA/?igshid=qq0g4iksfs2p https://twitter.com/themolelady_/status/1305019241410654208
“I do not support either”

Then what point are you making?

Already established men can be victims too. The victims don’t get heard due to patriarchy but they can’t be used to cancel the systematic oppression of women.

Check data quoted in previous tweets again. https://twitter.com/TheMoleLady_/status/1305019243927273474
“When a community has to target another community, women are r@ped.” https://twitter.com/themolelady_/status/1305019247194595329
Yes, Patriarchy affects everyone.

But not equally.

Patriarchy oppresses women openly.
While it affects men subliminally.

The scale is different.
The effect is vastly different. https://twitter.com/themolelady_/status/1305019249665036288
Clubbing the last few together as I’m too tired now.

- condemn abusive words but don’t condemn systematic oppression?

- we are all part of a patriarchal system & that means men have some privilege

- men are trash is a protest statement

- please research before writing threads
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