it would be exactly the same as now bc i wasn't interested in anyone at all during the ages of 18-22 and nor was anyone interested in me. and i feel like the idea that you *have* to have relationships at that age when you're still realistically very young & immature is... bad https://twitter.com/__missxbri/status/1320208159412264960

this thread is a pretty good example of that in practice. most people would absolutely not want to be married to the person they were into at 18-22. some actually did marry them & it didn't go well. the ones who married them & it worked out are the smallest portion of respondents