Lol I saw a thread of a man saying women take rejection worse than men and I flashed back to the times men threatened to kill me or beat me up cause I told them no thank you.
Just personal experience but also a lot of men get extra mad when a fat woman rejects them. Like I'm beneath them and how dare I.
Anyway now my chest feels all shaky because I guess that was more traumatic then I realized.
Also someone being unavailable for at reason isn't really a personal strike against YOU. A person is a whole entirety unto themselves and have their own lives. You just gotta keep rolling.
You can't think of women as incomplete things or resources that are up for grabs and you'll starve if you don't get one!!! You are a complete person too. Rejection stings but you gotta embrace it to be healthy and respectful. Plus a gracious response makes you look cool!
The day before I got married a man approached me saying I was so beautiful and asked if he could take me to coffee. I told him I was getting married the next day and he said "ah, lucky man!" HE WAS COOL
Lol this thread is starting to get likes so I'm gonna mute it cause a lot of times I'll get scary responses any time I talk about something like this. Sometimes angry dudes come in trying to prove me wrong but it's just more of the same