There's a theory that women create the men they complain about about.

Short thread

The older women tell younger women "don't date mama's boys," then go on to raise their sons to be mama's boys.

Who's going to date your son Auntie?

Women don't raise men, men raise men.

You're a proud "miss independent" single mom, and won't allow your son to see his father.

Then you go ahead to raise a soy, too soft, too emotional, weak man.

This boy grows with less or no masculinity traits as he lacks an immediate role model in his life.

He later faces the world with a too emotional mentality and approaches realities with emotions instead of with logic.

Before you know it, he will contribute to this

See, moms are sweet people. They will tell you what you want to here. They don't want to hurt you. Don't want to hurt your feelings

Fathers on the other hand, give objective truths. They kick in the butt hurts truths of this world in you. They tell you what you have to hear

No wonder, back then boys spent more time working around their fathers so to pick masculinity traits from their them, and girls did the same with the mothers to pick feminine traits.

Allow that boy to see his father no matters the differences you have btn you too.

Single mothers raise sons to be men they would never date

Gentlemen, love your mamma, but hey,

when you listen to mamma, you’ll never improve because mamma knows little about being a man.”