#Hindsight #Relationshipping
The things I did for "love"
One day I was late and I missed the last taxi from Springs to Secunda so #SerialCheater had to drive and fetch me
The "safest" place for me to wait was outside a tavern near the taxi rank
I went and I sat there
The things I did for "love"

One day I was late and I missed the last taxi from Springs to Secunda so #SerialCheater had to drive and fetch me
The "safest" place for me to wait was outside a tavern near the taxi rank
I went and I sat there
A very very drunk man came to ask me what I was doing there so late with a bag and so on
I told him the whole story with tears in my eyes
That man told me how dangerous that place was at night and how rubbish #SerialCheater was for making me catch taxis to Secunda
I told him the whole story with tears in my eyes
That man told me how dangerous that place was at night and how rubbish #SerialCheater was for making me catch taxis to Secunda
Then he told me that he'd wait with me until #SerialCheater arrived
He did just that. He sat outside the tavern with me for over an hour to make sure that I was safe
He did just that. He sat outside the tavern with me for over an hour to make sure that I was safe
When #SerialCheater and his friend eventually arrived, I asked them to pay this guy. They didn't want to
Long story short, I forced them to
I was so heartbroken that day
Heartbroken by the amount of effort and pain and and and that this relationship took
It was a lot
Long story short, I forced them to
I was so heartbroken that day
Heartbroken by the amount of effort and pain and and and that this relationship took
It was a lot
After #SerialCheater dumped me and moved on with his life, I was shattered
It was two years of #HeartbreakHotel and what I now recognise as clinical depression
My closest friends were so relieved. They were relieved that this nightmare of a "relationship" was finally over.
It was two years of #HeartbreakHotel and what I now recognise as clinical depression
My closest friends were so relieved. They were relieved that this nightmare of a "relationship" was finally over.
And you know what? I was relieved too
I could handle heartbreak
But I couldn't handle the worrying and sleepless nights wondering if he was really at home or eMbalenhle with uZama
I knew that there was a steady someone else #SerialCheater was seeing
I always found evidence
I could handle heartbreak
But I couldn't handle the worrying and sleepless nights wondering if he was really at home or eMbalenhle with uZama
I knew that there was a steady someone else #SerialCheater was seeing
I always found evidence
I'm glad that those things happened to me, that I survived the mess, and that I'm here today
I share these stories with people in messy relationships to show them that love should not hurt in that way
Not at all
I share these stories with people in messy relationships to show them that love should not hurt in that way
Not at all