I'm seeing a lot of thoughts, opinions and feelings on the tl today and just know you're feelings are valid! It's okay to feel how you feel. We all have different experiences and different ways of seeing things and because of that we will all feel different about things-

- and that's totally okay! Just put yourself first, at the end of the day you don't owe people anything, if you no longer feel a connection and want to leave don't feel guilty that's you're right, if you want to stay but have critiques that's also totally okay-

- but do what's best for you. Don't put hopes on something that might not come. Don't try to hold on to what was, or expect it to come back. Things change and I know that can be very scary but try to enjoy the ride or if you can't right now maybe get off it for a bit-

- it's okay to take a break and come back if you feel you can

I'm happy to be here enjoying the ride with those of you who are still on it! It's something that makes me happy so I stay but if it doesn't, then maybe reconsider.

Main point just do whats best for you