If you decide to ghost me, it’s ultimately your choice. If you feel there’s nothing left to say, or I’m not worth a goodbye, I’m okay with that. But just know, I won’t ever look back once you do. Our paths won’t cross again. Once I outgrow our connection, I don’t look back.

Many have played with my heart. Many have pushed me away with no warning, but came back once they felt the time was right. You don’t get to control the timeline, you do get to decide how that time ends. Be mindful before you leave someone with unclear intentions and pain.

Sometimes we get many chances to make it right, then other times we fail at every attempt to make it right. What’s not meant for you will never work, so make your best decision in that moment. Do what’s best for you, whether you’ll feel that way forever, accept it.

I’ve been at both ends of the pain. I ghosted and ghosted in return. I stayed true to doing what’s best for my mental health, and that was to free myself from anyone who couldn’t feel me. At the time, we were disconnected, we could have made it through, I didn’t give room.

I take full accountability for my part in ghosting, I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. Living with it and feeling it, neither are to be proud of. It’s bittersweet, because even though I wish I could have gave it one more chance, I’m also happy I didn’t.

I’m a firm believer everything that plays out is apart of the universe plans for me. I believe the situation would keep repeating if I didn’t free myself. It’s not I didn’t think they were worth a goodbye, the love is still there. I was just tired of repeating the same pattern.

My advice to you, always do what’s best for you. At the end of every day, it’s you against the world. You can’t keep anyone who doesn’t want to be there. You can’t make something right for you. We all go through lost times, but what’s meant for you won’t keep showing signs to go.