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[From a DNF book. Title at the end of the thread.]
Hero, talking about his ex fiancé: "Why marry a woman who couldn& #39;t get wet? [...] He& #39;d had to invest in lubricant for the first time in his life."
YIKES. Let& #39;s talk about how this is a big ol& #39; NOPE in so many ways.
Hero, talking about his ex fiancé: "Why marry a woman who couldn& #39;t get wet? [...] He& #39;d had to invest in lubricant for the first time in his life."
YIKES. Let& #39;s talk about how this is a big ol& #39; NOPE in so many ways.
First of all, this is very transphobic (transmisogyny) as it implies that one shouldn& #39;t marry/fuck a trans woman because they "can& #39;t get wet".
I shouldn& #39;t have to explain why this is a problem????
I shouldn& #39;t have to explain why this is a problem????
Second, even if this was, SOMEHOW worded in a way that was NOT transphobic, it& #39;s still a shitty thing to say about cis women and people who were born with a vagina.
Lots of things can alter vaginal wetness, including hormones, medical problems, and side effects from medication.
AND THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THIS! IT IS NOT THE VAGINA OWNER& #39;S FAULT!
AND THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THIS! IT IS NOT THE VAGINA OWNER& #39;S FAULT!
Also: there can be a difference between a person being or feeling aroused and their body actually showing this physical sign of arousal.
Emily talks more about arousal nonconcordance in COME AS YOU ARE, which is a great book https://amzn.to/2TifnFZ ">https://amzn.to/2TifnFZ&q...
Emily talks more about arousal nonconcordance in COME AS YOU ARE, which is a great book https://amzn.to/2TifnFZ ">https://amzn.to/2TifnFZ&q...
And finally: can we please stop acting like lube is this dirty secret, regardless of a person& #39;s genitals or who they are partnered with? Because lube is EXCELLENT, yes even for a "healthy" cis woman fucking a cis man!
LUBE FOR ALL, THANKS FOR COMING TO MY TED TALK.
LUBE FOR ALL, THANKS FOR COMING TO MY TED TALK.
The original quote was from A Little Harmless Sex, which I shared in a recent deals thread. The minute I hit that line, not even a few pages in to the book, I practically threw my Kindle at the wall. Not today, Satan, not today. https://amzn.to/3dSEwRp ">https://amzn.to/3dSEwRp&q...
