can i just say that immediately dropping/“cancelling” (i hate that term) people that make a mistake or do something wrong rather than trying to educate them or help them understand why it was wrong is a horrible and toxic mindset to have.

you’ve gotta give people a chance to learn and grow. like if someone says something bad or problematic on your tl just dm them to try and let them know. don’t go “oomf _____ https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤔" title="Denkendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Denkendes Gesicht">” or whatever without even asking if they know what they’re saying. that’s toxic as hell.

they may not even know what they’re saying or doing. if they don’t care even after you tell them THEN you can do that. this goes for friends, family, celebrities, and strangers even. nobody will ever learn or grow.

and yeah it’s not your responsibility to do that for them. but it’s also not just their responsibility to try and learn on their own because they may not even know where to start. same as literally everything else in life.