if you tweet “mono makes me feel good” but really mean that seeing someone you look up to struggle and overcome the same things you are struggling with makes you feel heard and understood? that’s fine. you don’t have to give strangers access to your intimate thoughts or feelings.

i really. Really mean that. and that goes for birthdays too as well as song/mixtape anniversaries. You don’t need to /tweet/ a letter to members or make a thread abt mixtapes/tracks for your feelings to be valid or for sht to mean a lot to you.

It’s rly easy to tell when some of y’all feel pressured to Say something to show you also care but I assure you you don’t need to let anyone know you care. no one is here to validate your stanning experience.