Hello!
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Had an internet friend tell me that someone showed up somewhere she was recently, and I& #39;m still haunted by it
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https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="👻" title="Geist" aria-label="Emoji: Geist"> y& #39;all- DON& #39;T DO THAT!
I& #39;ve also seen folks look at reflections in my glasses/accessories/etc and comment my location. Yooooo, stop!!
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And y& #39;all- if safety is a concern for you, be vigilant with looking at your photos before posting! You& #39;d be surprised to see what glasses/reflections pic up, and I& #39;ve seen so many of y& #39;all post your address/other personal details on accident
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When we get back to normal life/conferences, this also applies to the question "what hotel are you staying at?". We never know who is within earshot (and maybe we don& #39;t want you to know either). Easy mistakes to make, but please be mindful!
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I think about this tweet from @LaydiexSkull a lot. It was the 1st time I saw another woman online post about her experience/fears around this + it made me feel a lot more validated in my efforts to conceal my location. I left @SwarmApp cuz of this fear.
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Let me reiterate, even if you think you& #39;re "really nice" or "well intentioned" or "hey- I& #39;m a dad and married" or "I& #39;m actually a lizard" or "I& #39;m not scary"- UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES DO THIS
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https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="👎" title="Thumbs down" aria-label="Emoji: Thumbs down"> It is never ok to show up to someone& #39;s location like this!! https://twitter.com/ChloeCondon/status/1319306482337288194">https://twitter.com/ChloeCond...
Great thread from @BenThePCGuy (self-defense instructor + all around good dude), on how to be more mindful of this (dude-to-dude). Has some great tips!: https://twitter.com/BenThePCGuy/status/1319329554087829505">https://twitter.com/BenThePCG...
tldr: Don& #39;t spill the beans on people& #39;s locations online. Let the person who posted the image dictate the narrative!
Also, if you post a photo, double and triple check reflections... had someone zoom-in on a smol shiny kitchen appliance button to see @tsmith recently...
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Also, if you post a photo, double and triple check reflections... had someone zoom-in on a smol shiny kitchen appliance button to see @tsmith recently...
In conclusion- BE CAREFUL, FOLKS!!
And if you see someone posting something potentially dangerous, or see folks commenting locations- call that shit out!!
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And if you see someone posting something potentially dangerous, or see folks commenting locations- call that shit out!!
Really fascinating thread from @EmilyGorcenski on this- spotting location details is a lot easier than most folks think! https://twitter.com/EmilyGorcenski/status/1239306776153071618">https://twitter.com/EmilyGorc...
If you& #39;ve made this mistake before, don& #39;t feel bad- just do better in the future! Sharing this info to educate, not shame
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💕" title="Zwei Herzen" aria-label="Emoji: Zwei Herzen"> The more we talk openly about these things, the more we all learn!
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