Since I'm trying to be the change I want to see in the world, a thread of feminist state theory:
Wendy Brown: States of Injury https://press.princeton.edu/books/paperback/9780691029894/states-of-injury
Johanna Kantola: Feminists Theorize the State https://link.springer.com/book/10.1057/9780230626324
Deborah L. Rhodes, "Feminism and the State" https://www.jstor.org/stable/pdf/1341840.pdf
Catharine MacKinnon's "Feminism, Marxism, Method, and the State: An Agenda for Theory" https://www.jstor.org/stable/3173853?seq=1#metadata_info_tab_contents
and the follow up: Catharine MacKinnon's " Feminism, Marxism, Method, and the State: Toward Feminist Jurisprudence" https://www.jstor.org/stable/3173687?seq=1#metadata_info_tab_contents
Playing the State: Australian Feminist Interventions, ed. by Sophie Watson https://www.google.com/books/edition/Playing_the_State/ehTf6Zkksp0C?hl=en&gbpv=1&pg=PP1&printsec=frontcover
Jasbir K. Puar, Terrorist Assemblages: Homonationalism in Queer Times https://www.dukeupress.edu/terrorist-assemblages-tenth-anniversary-edition
Carole Pateman's The Sexual Contract https://books.google.com/books/about/The_Sexual_Contract.html?id=jH2KPvZF1L0C
Catharine MacKinnon's Toward a Feminist Theory of the State https://www.hup.harvard.edu/catalog.php?isbn=9780674896468
The Dark Star Collective's Quiet Rumors: An Anarcha-Feminist Reader (it's not all state theory, but some essays are) https://libcom.org/files/Quiet%20Rumours,%20An%20Anarcha-Feminist%20Reader,%20New%20Edition%20-%20The%20Dark%20Star%20Collective.pdf
Rosa Luxemburg's "Capitalism and the State" from Social Reform or Revolution https://www.marxists.org/archive/luxemburg/1900/reform-revolution/ch04.htm
Emma Goldman, "The Individual, Society, and the State" https://theanarchistlibrary.org/library/emma-goldman-the-individual-society-and-the-state
Okay, I have to actually prep for work now and this is just what comes to the top of my mind without actually like, looking back at any bibliographies that I've composed. But if you're interested in feminist state theory, these are some fun places to start.