I’m so tired of Queers defending our label and existence being painted as not caring about those who have trauma around the word
We tell them to mute the word rather than engage us or say we shouldn’t identify the way we are.

They don’t listen because they’d rather invalidate us and attack us.

But again, ppl only see us as not caring about them.
There’s never actual support for us from those who aren’t queer.
We always have to fight alone

You’d rather tell us “well not everyone likes that word”

you never tell them “hey, ok you don’t have to like the word, they aren’t telling you to use it for yourself, mute the word & leave them alone”. NEVER.

But you love to call yourselves allies
When we are defending ourselves from people literally telling us to identify as Questioning instead or telling us it is nothing but a slur, you’re quick to say

“Well...people have trauma with the word.”

Sounds so much like “well, you can’t blame them”
You’re quick to defend any other subgroup being policed but instead of helping us, you scold us and remind us that people have trauma with the word.

As if we aren’t being actively traumatized right there in front of you.
And even now, rather than step up and defend us or even just LISTEN, people unfollow instead.

Because how dare we point out the hypocrisy and fcking queerphobia

That’s what this boils down to.

Queerphobia.

Bigotry against Queers specifically.
I’m so angry, upset, tired, and heartbroken because this never ends

People think Queers are the new exclus targets but no. This has been happening to us long before “disk horse” takes started around here.

I’m so fcking tired of it.
I didn’t even mean for this to be a thread and there’s no grand point I get to make that’ll make everything better

I’m just tired.

We never get the support and protection afforded to so many others. Never.

Y’all may not realize it or mean to be, but you’re being queerphobic
It’s that simple

Digest that & please for the love of all that’s good on this fcking planet reflect on it & do better

Because I’m tired & so many other Queers are tired of having to defend ourselves alone while you demonize us & paint us as the bad ppl forgetting others’ trauma
Y’all should also follow @davidrxse because she sometimes has the words that escape me and explains a lot better, like here: https://twitter.com/davidrxse/status/1319134230597730304
this thread wasn’t about anyone in particular. I vented because I’m quite literally fed up.

If this was aboht someone individually, I promise you I would have said all this with someone tagged lol
You can follow @QueerHercules.
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