Men with sexual discipline and the transparency to go along with that discipline are the bare minimum. If you don't think cheating is a dealbreaker, you must not know how long a male orgasm lasts..

In that case, that nut is more important than the bond you have, the time you invested, and everything you sacrificed. Settling.

Let's call it what it really is, cycling in an abusive relationship because that person is violating you emotionally, and definitely sexually why sleeping with other people behind your back or trying to.

And a lot of people won't wake up to this fact because it's sobering. But to accept it is a form of next level Stockholm Syndrome. The truth is victims love their abusers, and they'll downplay abuse consistently because they've been conditioned to do it.

And in reference to men, they'll walk you like a dog and call you a bitch when you won't take it.

When in reality, what you signed up for was to be loved, cared for, supported in your most vulnerable moments. But they're choosing to take advantage of you because they know you're settling.

It takes a lot of planning to constantly cheat on somebody, to constantly attempt it. It does. Lying, sneaking, deleting text messages, telling people that know the both of you to not say anything and pretending that you're happy in a relationship. That's pro shit.