disk horse ramblings, don& #39;t mind me (though you can read and engage if you want, but please be polite?)
so when i first joined twitter we might remember that i posted an opinions^tm thread and inclus came for my ass and they Wanted Blood, but since then i& #39;ve chilled out a bit but not fully?
my main and strongest stance is that if you& #39;re cis and straight but also asexual or aromantic then you aren& #39;t lgbt (or lgbtq+, whatever you prefer, idc). i& #39;m also still very iffy about pansexuality as a label because it rubs me the wrong way as a bisexual trans person
and it& #39;s undeniable that pansexuality as a label has questionable origins; it erases bi history and it was commonly used in a transphobic way at its advent. i recognize that people have Chilled Out about it recently, but it still makes me uncomfortable, though i recognize-
that this is probably a Personal Problem and the way i feel isn& #39;t going to make people stop identifying as pansexual, and if that& #39;s what makes them happy, then that& #39;s great! though i do wish that the pansexual community as a whole would stop claiming that:
bisexuality means attraction to two genders (it& #39;s always been attraction to all genders), and co-opting anything specific to bisexuals, like bi visibility day and the like. i think i& #39;m willing to hesitantly move toward solidarity with pansexuals but-
i will be holding firm ground on the above matters

anyway, my point of this thread is that my opinions are beginning to adjust
what changed is that i started engaging with inclus twitter more? i follow some pretty rad inclusionists and they seem to have Generally Good opinions so i was like ok it can& #39;t hurt to listen to what they have to say
i& #39;m just gonna list the main opinions of mine that Have changed, just for my own sake
- when i first heard of he/him lesbians i was freaked out and upset but i& #39;m now comfortable with them and think they& #39;re really cool
- i& #39;m no longer uncomfortable with xenogenders and neopronouns. i follow some xenogender folks + neopronoun users and they& #39;re cool! the labels and identities are kinda sick too ngl
- i& #39;m more comfortable with inclus as a whole and i don& #39;t get https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🅱️" title="Invertierter quadratischer lateinischer Buchstabe B" aria-label="Emoji: Invertierter quadratischer lateinischer Buchstabe B">upset when i come across them
i can& #39;t remember if there& #39;s any other major stances of mine that have changed. hm
basically, i& #39;m at a weird point where i strongly empathize with Both Sides? on the one hand, i& #39;m still technically cishet ace exclusionary, but i no longer feel fully comfortable calling myself exclus because there are a lot of exclus who are transphobic
but i also wouldn& #39;t call myself inclus because i do firmly believe that certain marginalized community, like the ell gee bee tee& #39;s do need a certain amount of exclusivity to be safe and keep our oppressors (cishets) out
like ngl there are a lot of toxic people on both sides and both sides act as if they& #39;re better than the other. no one is better. we& #39;re all just fuckin queer people trying to survive and we need to chill out
there are bigger issues on hand than whether or not certain pronouns are https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="✨" title="Funken" aria-label="Emoji: Funken">validhttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="✨" title="Funken" aria-label="Emoji: Funken"> or if people can use that word to describe themself or if people can reclaim that slur
i dunno where my opinions will evolve from here, but i am quite content with my progress thus far i guess? i dunno. this like Truly Doesn& #39;t Matter
i should be doing schoolwork
OH also if people are reading this i want it to be known that i& #39;m not and never have been transmed lol fuck transmeds they can eat my juicy trans ass
ok my last tweet about transmeds was probably too aggressive and i shouldn& #39;t have expressed that feeling as strongly as i did, but my point is that i& #39;m not transmedicalist/truscum and i& #39;m uncomfortable with the ideology
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