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It’s actually wild just how trauma can affect your psyche . You end up convincing yourself that all men cheat , so you’ll find yourself a relationship to settle in because you’d rather be the one they cheat with than cheat on . And this cycle repeats until your tower moment 
Or you end up relationship hopping coz your traumatized ass is unable to handle emotional challenge. So now it’s everyone’s fault for not loving you how you want to be loved not realizing that trauma has made you incapable of expressing to your partner how you want to be loved
Or u end up being the emotionally unavailable savage who is a master at detachment when in actual fact u are incapable of receiving love & setting healthy boundaries so u convince your traumatized self that hurting others & leaving relationships at your earliest convenience is it
Or u end up with someone who is ready & willing to love u how u deserve to be loved but your traumatized ass thinks they have an ulterior motive so you’re always the first to cheat/sabotage the relationship because “I’m not sure if they’re loyal, it will hurt less if I do it 1st“
Trauma will deal with you shem . Pls let’s heal bafethu. Heal heal heal , Bathong
