I guess my experience is, ahem, unique, but... I've known both men and women who are chronic masturbators. (No non-binary people yet, THERE'S TIME!) Me being me, if there's an awkward, erm, unintentional viewing, I ask them what the deal is? 9 times out of 10, they're depressed.

Yeah, some people DO rub one out between work meetings, calls... I knew one guy who fondled himself WHILE DRIVING to relieve anxiety (unsafe but yeah). They're kind of ashamed of it. But they're trying to game their endorphins to get through the day.

Just putting that out there for some perspective. I wish people didn't look for reasons to write people off as gross. Jeffrey Toobin is a smug asshole who has apparently done WAY worse things. I'm just concerned about the bystanders here feeling proxy shame.