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Attention all "Daddy Doms":
If you can't fulfil at least 3-6 of the requirements listed below, then you need further training before you can call yourself Daddy Dom (this applies to Mommy Doms/BDSM parent(s) as well ) see thread below
If you can't fulfil at least 3-6 of the requirements listed below, then you need further training before you can call yourself Daddy Dom (this applies to Mommy Doms/BDSM parent(s) as well ) see thread below
1. Be mentally stable while in care mode
2. Set healthy boundaries so you can have a good relationship in-and-out of sessions
3. Be able to provide basic needs for yourself and your little
4. This includes cooking, having a clean environment, and ensuring a safespace
2. Set healthy boundaries so you can have a good relationship in-and-out of sessions
3. Be able to provide basic needs for yourself and your little
4. This includes cooking, having a clean environment, and ensuring a safespace
5.being able to properly discipline your little without the use of sex or "violence" (spanking/ impact play)
6. If you commit to being a full time Dom(lifestyler) making sure you can mentally and financially handle it
7. Making sure little has a safespace if you can't provide one
6. If you commit to being a full time Dom(lifestyler) making sure you can mentally and financially handle it
7. Making sure little has a safespace if you can't provide one
8.must be able to provide aftercare (strictly plutonic) cuddles, baths, snack/mealtime for little
9. (For Dom "parents") must have consent, open and clear communication with Partners on how to care for little
10. If you can't agree on rearing practices don't take it out on little
9. (For Dom "parents") must have consent, open and clear communication with Partners on how to care for little
10. If you can't agree on rearing practices don't take it out on little
10.must have full control over when your sub goes in-and-out of littlespace
11.being strictly plutonic with your little in public when in littlespace (even if the little makes advances first)
12. Must be able to handle all of littles needs if they are disabled
11.being strictly plutonic with your little in public when in littlespace (even if the little makes advances first)
12. Must be able to handle all of littles needs if they are disabled
13.must care for littles strictly platonically if under the age of 18
14. Must truly love and care for sub in-and-out of littlespace
15.must not put littles needs before ones own (parterships reccomended for this purpose)
16.must let partner(s) sub know when you need a break!!!
14. Must truly love and care for sub in-and-out of littlespace
15.must not put littles needs before ones own (parterships reccomended for this purpose)
16.must let partner(s) sub know when you need a break!!!
17.(adding to #4 if can't cook must be able to provide food, food must have some nutritional value and not contain anything that little is alergic to)
18.Must not use excess/lack of food as punishment, must make sure little is properly fed and hydrated before and after sessions.
18.Must not use excess/lack of food as punishment, must make sure little is properly fed and hydrated before and after sessions.
18.if sessions involve diaper play must make sure no excrement/urine get in orafices (mouth,eyes, ears,nose,urethra,anus,vagina)
19.must make sure little/sub is mentally stable before,during,and after sessions
20.must be able to get sub out of littlespace if having panic attack
19.must make sure little/sub is mentally stable before,during,and after sessions
20.must be able to get sub out of littlespace if having panic attack
Feel free to suggest more requirements below (must be serious suggestions! This thread is meant to help BDSM families start and maintain healthy relationship dynamic!) -your Big Bro/Big Sis/Aunt/Uncle/ Genderfluid kink sibling!
