can finally say i'm comfortable w/ a label for my identity, and i'm coming out as cassgirlflux

i wanna leave a short explanation as i realized that cassgender/cassflux isn't as recognized or as talked about in general, as i myself have only jus discovered this very recently:

cassgender - a gender identity where one feels that one's gender is unimportant, or is indifferent to the idea of gender.

cassflux - a gender identity where one feels that one's level of indifference towards one's gender fluctuates.

cassgender/flux is also considered as a broad/umbrella term though i won't delve into it, so if you want t find out more i suggest looking it up! a site that helped me a lot was http://cass-support-network.tumblr.com , the responses there really cleared things out for me.

i want to make a special mention of cassgirl* as i specifically resonate with this:

*cassgirl - indifferent to gender, but identifies as somewhat female.

you can also be cass and identify with/as another gender, nd in my case it's girlflux:

girlflux - when one feels mostly or all female most of the time, but experiences fluctuating intensities of female identity. (of course, there are more in-depth/detailed explanations for being girlflux, so i suggest looking it up as well if you want to learn more)

i'd also like to add some flags that i found to be my personal favorites nd would personally use myself. they're variations/proposed versions of the existing cassgender/flux and girlflux flags:

these two are proposed variations of the cassflux and cassgirl flags, respectively

meanwhile this (left) flag is a proposed version of the girlflux flag by Kyrin-Lee on deviantart, as the second flag is a simplified stripes version of the one on the left. they're so pretty

because i identify as cassflux (specifically cassgirl) AND girlflux, i'm using the coined term 'cassgirlflux' on myself! and as this falls under the spectrum of genderflux, i also want t express that i don't consider myself "specifically" as cis, non-binary or trans, but fluid.

in line with this, i've also added a new set of pronouns that i want to be referred to with, so please interchange using xe/xem along with she/they when referring t me!

my pronouny is now jn my carrd, as well as a guide on how to use my new pronouns.

i'm glad i'm finally decided on what i am nd that i'm comfortable w/ it. i hope this thread served a dual purpose of informing anybody who didn't know abt this or who may possibly identify the same way, but isn't familiar w/ it yet <3 (end)