Men are vulnerable with who they trust, it’s best not to push. But with things I have been told, I want nothing more for them to be in therapy to this day. Y’all hold in the most heartbreaking shit & desires.
& the childhood traumas y’all were forced into were not your fault, someone doing you dirty is not your fault, what you wish for in life you still have time to achieve. But it starts with you baby.
They want you to accept their reality for you but god forbid you show emotion..or want a better situation for yourself. I want you to be free, if you were IMAGINE how smoothly your bonds would be.
You’d spend more time loving and protecting instead of being fearful and projecting. That one you really wanted, wouldn’t have gotten away. You want to say “I’m proud of my past, not ashamed.” It’s all because of what you’ve experienced & how YOU handle it all.
I really hate how society treats my brothers just to turn around & say “they all aren’t shit.” some become the negativity they know they shouldn’t, others desperately push by for better.
You want your dear ones to depend on you. To depend on THE MAN. But you can’t even depend on yourself to be honest with yourself regarding your feelings and others that need to know your truth. That’s where the problems begin.