SHAWOLS please read this because it is important ♡
As i said last time, you can always block, report etc me if you dislike what i said. you can also stop reading if you start feeling uncomfortable because its your right, you have no obligation to read or anything-

i need to precise that anyone can read it but it is more directed to a shawols because i am one and that SHINee is coming back. So don’t forget that you can always close the thread if you do not like what you see, you can curse at me or threaten me but i don’t care so no worry-

Now that i did warning lets precise the topic:

tw 18 dec , grief and i don’t think there is other but if i forget one i apologize already and since most of the thread are related to it, i wont tw each tweets (its stress me to not be able to finish sentences)

So lets go into it:

As you know, SHINee is coming back soon. Everyone is so happy about it right but we are forgetting something... it’s been long since they comeback "together" so you may have forget it but are you really ready for it ?

Some of you may not understand where i am going rn its ok-

When i ask you if you are ready for it, I mean are you mentally prepared to see them as 4 ?

Some will say yes and i am proud of you for it but are you sure about it ?
A lot of us forgot to grief during those 2 years and it’s a problem that will resurface soon sadly-

a lot of you are still stuck in denial which is okay because everyone take different time to go through it but did you accept help and tried to get out of denial or did you decide to stay stuck in it because you refuse to face the reality ? I completely understand that you are-

trying to protect yourself but it isn’t healthy and their comeback will be even more harder for you particularly. I know a lot of oldershawol (me as well) as a big trigger with tsol because of many reasons who ended up becoming hate against this albums trilogy but-

sadly a lot of you started shaming people who genuinely like the album or who found comfort in it and it is egoistic from us. SHINee did this album as a gift for us to help us as well as them so of course peoples will like it so why blame them ? why harrasing them ?-

“they don’t understand what we went through” of course they wont but why are you shaming them for not having trauma ?
“they are founding comfort in SHINee’s pain” but arent you too ? I’m home is not a sweet love song, elevator is not lost love, those songs/albums are pain too.

It is pain that the members decided to share with us. Minho left this song for a reason.
Those songs are a gift they give us to show us that we are not alone and that we are going to grow together. So why shame someone for founding comfort in others songs ?

I know why... It’s be we are scared that he get forgotten, we are scared that people start assuming that SHINee are 4, that jonghyun is not part of them but to be brutally honest we can’t do anything about it. Of course some people will assume they are 4 despite everything-

the same way peoples assume taemin is a solo and in superm. This hurt you too, right ? but what can we do about it ? People assume what they see until they decide to deep into it and it is something that we can’t change. whatever we do, it will just happen. Forcing SHINee-

agenda on everyone won’t change anything unless make them hate the fandom for forcing them to stan a group they dont care about or even if they get interest and decide to stan, call them fakewol because they doesnt know the whole discography album or

call them not shawol enough because they never knew jonghyun. Do you see what wrong ?
it literally sound like “i am born before and knew our parents first so I am the only child” it is just selfish.

I understand that it is a copying way from the fakewol drama that happened-

in 2018 but you can’t stay by yourself like that. You need to go out your dark corner and open up. Your grief is valid, Your feelings are valid, You have the right to cry, be angry, be upset about what happened. Once everything will be out, you feel so light.

Realizing the truth and accepting what happened doesnt mean that you are moving on from him or that he will disappear from your memory, it literally just mean that you realize that you shouldn’t expect to see or hear him anymore, thats they will never be any update ever again-

and yes thats shit hurt, it hurt so much. Its so hard and never stop hurting but thats the reality.

Please take some time to breath, i care about you and doesnt want you to have an attack.

Are you feeling ok ? Are you sure you can keep reading ? If no, then its ok ♡ you did so well, take time off bc your health come first!

if yes, then i am proud of you as well ♡ lets keep on-

SHINee will forever be 5 for us, in our heart but we will have to get use to see 4 of them and keeps supporting and being proud of them for how strong they are. Even if reality is not the one we hoped for, it is still the one we are living in so we have to get use to it.

Yes it will take time again and will be hard but those are the steps to blossoming (?) and well-being. Always remember that 5HINee loves you and Jonghyun will forever be here in your heart to take care of you!

From now on, let’s walk on our beautiful flower path that we are-

building everyday together. We are all shawols and although the inside conflicts we have we are still a big family that will always be there to listen to you!

Let’s write our beautiful page ♡

Thank you for reading all this thread that took hours to write and probably hours to read as well, i am really thankful to each one of you and will always be there to listen to you if you need someone to cry with or just a friend! Show me your dog, art idc we are friends!

Btw i apologise for any spelling mistakes, grammatical errors, bad tone and everything. English is not my first language and i am pretty awkward with words and its 6am rn. Feel free to dm me if there is anything who want to talk about privatly or share your thoughts! Thank you !