the 'gross' parts of mental illness should be talked about more, like depression, it isnt always just about being sad its also being unable to take care about yourself and your space. yes, this may mean living in a complete mess. this may mean going days without personal hygiene.

people will talk themself up as mental health advocates but as soon as people talk about the gross parts about their mental illness suddenly they are made fun of and insulted for something usually out of their control.

so, advocacy when its nice and convenient for you?

whats the point in encouraging talking about your feelings and experiences if were made to still feel guilty and embarassed about a big portion of what we suffer from??

And this isnt just an issue for depression, or even entirely just an issue for people who suffer with mental illnesses in general, this applies to disabled and neurodivergent folks too.

I'm really glad this thread helped some of you, and helped you maybe realize something you didnt know. Just know you aren't alone in this struggle and that you shouldnt have to feel bad for something beyond your control. You aren't lazy and you aren't gross for it.

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