first of all, the death threats wilbur currently receives, now, let the man breathe. a joke is a joke, please. don't take a joke personally. death threats or any kind of threats at all towards ccs should not be acceptable. they already often receive hate, why add death threats???
dream smp is mostly just a roleplay, it's just server where they can act out events without worry or offense towards anyone. even though they make mistakes, they say sorry and they tend to not repeat those mistakes again. but, if it's not much, maybe please be nicer to wilbur?
about fans unsubbing to dream because of the squid and the vlog. he already said sorry in separate tweets guys, come on. he tries his best in everything to change for the better. he never meant to do those mistakes and he apologizes for whatever offending action he does.
he even stated that he wanted to make people smile and happy. he stated he wanted to make an impact on the world. he wants to make the depressed feel comforted and make everything to feel that everything will be fine. the man's selfless and does his best to make content.