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A woman can marry whoever she wants to marry. It's "Her" right. Whether she wants someone with a cd70 or civic. Whatever. Stop this pathetic nonsense of a meme. This thread would be an honest slap on the men from a male perspective so buckle up. 1/10
1st things 1st, majority ppl (specially most boys) only go to the uni to have fun, affairs and party. They spend 4 yrs chasing girls and once they get one who is also interested, goal achieved. The main purpose of learning "Gone'. Parents hard earned money "Gone" 2/10
Now the other boys who didn't go after chasing girls (or they tried and failed), they don't learn a single thing in the uni aswell. Even if they tried, the pathetic educational system only taught them ratta. No skill, only ways to pass papers and get a degree 3/10
Fast 4wd, 4 yrs over, degree in hand, now search for jobs. No one employs an unskilled and untrained person who doesn't even know how to create a proper resume/cv. Trust me I had the privilege to recruit undergrads and they seriously don't know 4/10
Now let's do a reality check, a person who is not even employable, would a Father give his daughters hand to him? The one who had a relationship of 3-4 yrs, alarm bells are ringing now. Marriage proposals are coming for girl but he himself can't land an income source 5/10
The one who didn't fall in relationship mess in uni, can't find a suitable income too. Hence cant send a proposal to anyone he likes too, because he is too busy with income on his mind. Even if he sends, rejection chances are high. Now let's compare Islam wise. 6/10
Islam says don't send a marriage proposal untill you can afford to provide a separate Bedroom, restroom and a kitchen to your spouse. If you can't provide this, start fasting to keep your desires controlled. 7/10
Under all this circumstances, why would a woman accept a marriage proposal anyway? She "Must" go for a better proposal offering better life and comfort, it's her right. It's her life. Now I wont leave without proposing a solution to boys. So boys listen up 8/10
Go to whichever uni you want to go, I don't care, but learn at least one subject or skill in which you can call yourself a master. Spend 4yrs polishing that skill. go to YouTube, learn with self study. Spend time on personal assessment, evaluation, development. 9/10
I can guarantee u once u get out of uni u wud have figured out ur income source. Then send proposals 2 whichever woman u want, chances would b better of acceptance. Don't waste time in Haram relationship. Don't waste ur parents money. Think big and grow out of normal ways 10/10
