Dorathy by first weeks,she referred to Ozo as her Brother & Father in the house. Prince as her spec. Kidd her main person (They both jokily referred to each other as this) but ppl missed those two guys and thought more of her & ozo lol.

One thing for certain; Dorathy really made genuine bonds in the house and they all happened in first weeks.

Paraphrasing Nengi's words "You are very lucky to have met people who genuinely care about you. You have made good friendships"

Dorathy tended to give the guys a tag of relation lol. Laycon was his son (Because she looks after him & he is always demanding attention from her ) Praise is guy... only Prince & Kidd got a "flirty"tag. Yet ppl don't want to believe when she says it's them she has crush on lol

I never want to talk about the whole Ozo and Dorathy thing because it is stupid as the fights are only amongst the fans & not themselves.

But to sum it up without saying much...

...But to sum it up without saying much, find that clip with Ozo Wathoni and Nengi

Those words were not spoken by Dora. Neither has she been in a conversation of that type with anyone else

Stop chasing clout with Dorathy's name to create a topic for ur dry ship

The thing about Dorathy is that she brings a spark to everyone she is with hence ppl see potential relationships of every of her friendships because they reason it "This guy is not like this w/ others" Dorathy said on stage "I hv a special gift of making everyone around me happy

Dorathy speaking about her tight close friendship with Ozo "I remember asking him; do I remind u of it sister? Bcos I sensed that he treats me like his little sister. There were never feelings. He is very very soft & needs someone stronger than him to help him through a new place

That's how our friendship was"

A person who described this friendship well was Erica "Dorathy is Ozo's backbone. They compliment each other"

But everyone were speaking about: We don't know what's happening there. Whether they r just friends or ship or potential for one

And Dorathy understands herself. When she said she's not a girly-girl & doesn't know how to do girly things when it comes to these love things. She said she wants to be loved for herself; that's why she doesn't do the "Perfect girly image" in order to impress...

She said; I want to be free and be myself. That she wants to be known of who she is when she's not made up & all prim & perfect

"I know guys want perfect-perfect girl. I am too free spirited to do that. I can't do those girly-girly things. I want to be myself" Dorathy

"Dorathy has a fucken ego. She'll have things on her own terms" Laycon. "Dorathy is a relaxed girl. She's not like other girls" Brighto "I feel like Dorathy will want a man who she's able to control. She has an ego" Vee

For me; I don't find anything strange about Dorathy. I just think Nigeria has a different gender expectations. You see it even in movies. Women are still defined by being linked to men. They must desire & want men beyond everything & when u not that way... Such topics happen

Me I come from a country where it was women who handled it when father's were in exile,killed or in prison. They were forced to be independent & strong. To define a women by their capabilities and character rather than a male who they are linked to, is not strange

To put urself first as a woman; is not a strange thing. To know what u want & what you don't want as a woman, is not strange. To set boundaries, is not strange. To not follow-follow & stand by yourself as a woman;is not strange.

Hopefully Naija will enter the modern world@ this

And there is no one way to being. The only right way to be is being urself. For the girly-girl, let her be. For the butch strong tought girl, let her be that. None about that is saying the other side doesn't exist. The girly-girl is still strong. The taught girl is still girly

The only mistake is that however a girl is; y'all make it to be about guys

Dorathy said I don't want my game to be disturbed by people linking me up to ship drama. I did not come here for that. Nengi said the same thing too but y'all don't respect that

I am going to delete this thread later

Every yr on BBN twitter, girls are dragged just because they are not under the male link. Dragged for playing their game toward what they came there for. Dragged for not losing their focus on the prize. Dragged for shining by themselves & not needing anyone for that. It's crazy

It's as if guys feel fulfilled through having girls be defined through them. Need them etc and when they see females not being that way, it upsets them. Them and the ladies who cannot accept that there are actually ppl not lacking in confidence the way they do