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Attention new sugar babies on seeking arrangement:
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🚩" title="Dreieckige Fahne an einem Pfosten" aria-label="Emoji: Dreieckige Fahne an einem Pfosten">Sugar d*ddy red flags, a thread
1. He invites you to coffee, a drink, a public park, or somewhere else that& #39;s free, and refuses to give you at least a $250-400 donation for your timehttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🛑" title="Stop sign" aria-label="Emoji: Stop sign">
2. He invites you to his househttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="👺" title="Japanischer Kobold" aria-label="Emoji: Japanischer Kobold">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🔪" title="Küchenmesser" aria-label="Emoji: Küchenmesser"> 1/
1. He invites you to coffee, a drink, a public park, or somewhere else that& #39;s free, and refuses to give you at least a $250-400 donation for your time
2. He invites you to his house
3. He makes less than $200k a year if single or less than like $500k a year if married (rough estimates)https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🛑" title="Stop sign" aria-label="Emoji: Stop sign">
4. He claims to make that much or more but when you Google him, there& #39;s no evidence of a successful career-- total cipher. He& #39;s given you a fake name or fake incomehttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🛑" title="Stop sign" aria-label="Emoji: Stop sign">
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4. He claims to make that much or more but when you Google him, there& #39;s no evidence of a successful career-- total cipher. He& #39;s given you a fake name or fake income
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5. He is near retirement age and doesn& #39;t have millions in savingshttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🛑" title="Stop sign" aria-label="Emoji: Stop sign">
6. You look him up on spokeo and he doesn& #39;t own an expensive house relative to prices in your areahttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🛑" title="Stop sign" aria-label="Emoji: Stop sign">
7. He refers to himself as a "mentor."https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙄" title="Gesicht mit rollenden Augen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit rollenden Augen"> He& #39;s trying to get sex from you just for advice on writing a CV
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6. You look him up on spokeo and he doesn& #39;t own an expensive house relative to prices in your area
7. He refers to himself as a "mentor."
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8. He says he& #39;s "not looking for anything transactional." He& #39;s trying to shame you into giving him what he wants without giving you what you want. RUN. https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🛑" title="Stop sign" aria-label="Emoji: Stop sign">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🔥" title="Feuer" aria-label="Emoji: Feuer">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🏃" title="Person running" aria-label="Emoji: Person running">
9. He sends a photo request with no message. He can& #39;t even afford an accounthttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤡" title="Clownsgesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Clownsgesicht">
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9. He sends a photo request with no message. He can& #39;t even afford an account
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10. He requests more photos even though you posted headshots and full body photos. He just doesn& #39;t want to pay for onlyfans https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤡" title="Clownsgesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Clownsgesicht">
11. He says anything negative about sex workers. He& #39;s trying to shame you into feeling bad about what you& #39;re doing so you& #39;ll do it for free/cheaphttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤡" title="Clownsgesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Clownsgesicht">
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11. He says anything negative about sex workers. He& #39;s trying to shame you into feeling bad about what you& #39;re doing so you& #39;ll do it for free/cheap
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12. He offers you an allowance that& #39;s less than what full-service sex workers in your area with a similar look charge. So if he wants to see you once a week, multiply a two-hour date by four and that& #39;s about what you should demand monthly.
13. He tries to haggle with youhttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤡" title="Clownsgesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Clownsgesicht">
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13. He tries to haggle with you
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14. He asks for your address, or calls you an Uber to pick you up but gets weird about you giving him the address of a coffee shop as the location https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤡" title="Clownsgesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Clownsgesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🔪" title="Küchenmesser" aria-label="Emoji: Küchenmesser">
15. He asks for your "real name." (Use a fake one.)
16. He wants to PayPal you. He can just reverse the charge laterhttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤡" title="Clownsgesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Clownsgesicht">
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15. He asks for your "real name." (Use a fake one.)
16. He wants to PayPal you. He can just reverse the charge later
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17. He initially messaged you on Twitter https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Gesicht mit Freudentränen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Freudentränen">
18. He asks you to buy him a gift card or says he& #39;ll send you money but you have to pay a sending fee first (scam!)https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤡" title="Clownsgesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Clownsgesicht">
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18. He asks you to buy him a gift card or says he& #39;ll send you money but you have to pay a sending fee first (scam!)
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19. He says he prefers to "spoil" his "baby" with surprise gifts/ vacations instead of giving money because it& #39;s more "romantic." Do not fvck an older man for a handbag. He& #39;s supposed to be paying for your rent, bills, food, plus enough for a designer bag or two every month https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🛑" title="Stop sign" aria-label="Emoji: Stop sign">
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20. He keeps asking you questions about how you& #39;re managing during the pandemic, saying it must be hard, etc. He& #39;s not sympathetic-- he& #39;s sniffing around to see how desperate you are so he can offer you a low allowance. If you& #39;re broke, don& #39;t tell him. https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🛑" title="Stop sign" aria-label="Emoji: Stop sign">
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21. You ask friends who do full- service sex work how they do background checks and you use those methods and see anything bad. This can save your life! https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🆘" title="Quadratisches SOS" aria-label="Emoji: Quadratisches SOS">
22. He states that he& #39;s looking for college-age SB/ 18-22. He& #39;s prob looking for naive girls to fool. Yellow flaghttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="⚠️" title="Warnsignal" aria-label="Emoji: Warnsignal">
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22. He states that he& #39;s looking for college-age SB/ 18-22. He& #39;s prob looking for naive girls to fool. Yellow flag
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23. He says anything explicitly sexual in his first message. Don& #39;t sext for free https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤡" title="Clownsgesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Clownsgesicht">
24. He tries to get you to have sex with him before he gives you your allowancehttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🚩" title="Dreieckige Fahne an einem Pfosten" aria-label="Emoji: Dreieckige Fahne an einem Pfosten">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🚩" title="Dreieckige Fahne an einem Pfosten" aria-label="Emoji: Dreieckige Fahne an einem Pfosten">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🚩" title="Dreieckige Fahne an einem Pfosten" aria-label="Emoji: Dreieckige Fahne an einem Pfosten">
25. You have a bad gut feeling about him. You come home after a first date and want to drink/ binge/ etc.
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24. He tries to get you to have sex with him before he gives you your allowance
25. You have a bad gut feeling about him. You come home after a first date and want to drink/ binge/ etc.
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26. You feel revolted by him or depressed after seeing him. It& #39;s not worth your mental health if you& #39;re not homeless or about to be. I know times are hard and I have been homeless in the past so I& #39;m sending love to anyone making tough choices https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💜" title="Violettes Herz" aria-label="Emoji: Violettes Herz">
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Your local sex worker community can help you. Many of these guys are the rejects of full-service sex workers who have blacklisted them. We know ways of keeping each other safe. Always text a friend with your location and the guy& #39;s info and tell them when to expect you back.
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And tell the guy you have done that, too.
Oops, one more tip-- if he tries to "neg" you by giving you backhanded compliments, run.https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤡" title="Clownsgesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Clownsgesicht">
Other sex workers, please spill the tea if you have other red flags!https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="☕" title="Heißgetränk" aria-label="Emoji: Heißgetränk"> Let& #39;s help keep these girls from getting screwed over or worse https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💕" title="Zwei Herzen" aria-label="Emoji: Zwei Herzen">
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Oops, one more tip-- if he tries to "neg" you by giving you backhanded compliments, run.
Other sex workers, please spill the tea if you have other red flags!
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Ps: if he messages you on SA talking about ppm, that& #39;s technically "prostitution" and he& #39;s prob a cop or just a dumbass. If you want to talk about ppm, do it after you& #39;ve conducted a background check and gone on one platonic date
Pps: before there is any intimacy, in advance, you absolutely need to see his ID or his LinkedIn with a photohttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="❗" title="Rotes Ausrufezeichen" aria-label="Emoji: Rotes Ausrufezeichen"> Ask friends who do full-service sex work what to do with that https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="❗" title="Rotes Ausrufezeichen" aria-label="Emoji: Rotes Ausrufezeichen">
