Only in Nigeria will a University Graduate need parent's permission to choose where to worship.
Parents really need to learn when to stop issuing decrees.
If your 20 something year old can be responsible enough to choose his/her church, what then can she decide on?
#ENDSARS

If you are facing this issue as a young person, better "ja yourself".
At some point in your life you need to take responsibility for your growth and destiny.

You will need to insist firmly and yet politely.
"Mummy/Daddy, I love and honor you but I am old enough to make this decision, I insist on it and hope you respect my decision."