Behind any “lazy” behavior there’s a traumatic experience.

Instead of diving deeper into the abyss of miseries, ask yourself:

Why there is no drive?

Why do you not want to do anything?

What do you live for?

Is you room clean?

When a man has a goal he desires, he is fueled with motivation and seeks every moment to seize the opportunity.

If there is no goal, his mind becomes passive towards life — instead of producing something, it wants to consume.

Absence of the desire to create, indicates that the person was traumatized in the past because humans have a creative nature — kids make things up all the time.

Where does it go?

It means, there was a moment when a person's brain decided to be "lazy" to avoid troubles.

Some parents, when disturbed by a child showing them what he did, instead of informing the kid they are busy and will check it out later, they yell at the poor kid without explaining the reason behind their behavior:

"Not now! Go!"

It creates passive attitude — "no one cares."

When from early childhood the human spirit is deprived of its own nature, the existential questions like "why am I living here?" are avoided at all cost by TV, memes, and other easy-dopamine resources to avoid the troubles.

When a man doesn't know what he/she lives for every day — life becomes pointless and "lazy" behavior is the brain's solution to the problem.

It's like driving at a roundabout without knowing where to turn — there's no direction.

To break the circle one, one needs to ask themselves the "why" question and explore that dark forest of their mind and unravel the knots from the past.

Unless someone realizes that they are "lazy" on their own, no external stimuli would work. It needs to come from within.