Your issue is not the fact that the man has a child, your issue is with the fact that YOU will NEVER be his main priority, until you can PROVE yourself to be worthy enough to be implemented as priority in his life.

The issue is ENTITLEMENT and most of you fall below the bar.

You want to be the man’s everything because you self worth is external.

You believe external people can validate you but your worth is an intrinsic thing.

Prove yourself to yourself , all the acting can not last long.

If you are subpar, work on it bettering you.

You fear his ‘baby mother’ because you don’t think you hold enough value for him to stay with you.

You think he will eventually leave you and that’s a you situation, a you problem.

You dislike baby fathers because you dislike yourself lol