I realize that I hate requests that feel lazy + vague.

Avoid: *follows my social media acct, likes 10 pics, and sends DM. "I love you work, let's chat."

Like... what? who are you? chat about what?

I'm not offended by a stranger who regularly engages + has SPECIFIC questions. https://twitter.com/dramberthornton/status/1316745827021467655

Fun Fact: I used to be a career coach at UT Austin (Hook Em!)

I gave students 4 keys to sending a successful request for informational interviews:

1. Show you've done your homework
2. Point out something you have in common
3. Have a clear ask
3. Give them a chance to say no

1. Show them you've done your homework

Hi Dr. Whoever,

I recently came across your article "name it" in my psychology class. I was so intrigued and never considered how much XYZ contributed to childhood development. In fact, I brought up your article in my social work class.

2. Point out something you have in common

When I learned that you're an alum of UT Austin, I wanted to reach out.

3. Have a clear ask

Would you be open to a 15 min call to discuss how you gained clarity about your career even with so few Black professors and faculty with your research interests?

4. Give them a chance to say no

I understand that now may be a busy time and you may be unavailable. If that's the case, I understand and look forward to reading more of your work in the future.

Best,

Last piece of info.

I'd tell students to send out 10 requests like that + expect maybe 2-3. Why? Because some folks hate informational interviews OR your email went to spam.

Then I wished them GOOD LUCK!