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@ToriYoung_7 I just wanted to make this thread for you to read since it is very clear you do not know how dating, engagements, or friendships work here in Korea. So let me educate you +
For one here in Korea it is normalized to be best friends with your S/O before even dating. Meaning you don’t just come out of the blue and say you are engaged like you did. And when single you typically meet your other half through friends (which you have none)+
You have no mutual friends with ta3 and you don’t even respect the other members of bt$ you rarely talk about them. Korean men find it really important that you get along with their friends and that you address them the proper way. Which by the way you do not at all+
Just because he considers them like family does not mean you address them as “your brothers” when speaking to him about them they have names you know! Use their names.. along with the proper title they have. +
Koreans find it extremely rude and disrespectful when you address them the improper and wrongful way it’s frowned upon in any asian culture. You have shown absolutely no respect for our culture. Cooking our food and improperly forming sentences +
Through google translate does not suffice. Google translate doesn’t form proper sentence structures and it shows though the very little korean you copy and paste into you post. That you are putting zero effort into learning korean +
Opening a book isn’t going to magically give you knowledge on how to speak and write in korean you actually need to study. And considering your native language is English you have quite a lot to learn. +
Here’s the big Subject Engagements. I am currently in the process of getting engaged to my boyfriend so I have a better understanding of how this works+
For one the family aka the parents meet you first before engagements are even considered. First born sons have it a bit harder since they are carrying their families name typically they are obligated to marry a full blown Asian woman. Mind you korea isn’t very +
Open to interbreeding or engagements with foreigners that are not of Asian decent. This is because the values are not the same and typically like yourself women from different countries are not raised to standards to marry first born sons from Korea +
Mind you you are white... one percent doesn’t consider you asian so get your head out of your ass. And realize you nor you wack job mom are not part of our culture.
And here’s the sad truth. most korean men if they do end up with a foreigner that isn’t Asian. are looking to “date” for sex or as a “I got a foreigner because they are “easy”. You are the Example of easy. They wouldn’t date to marry they would date to laugh at you+
And not to be mean but you are far from meeting the beauty standards in Korea and I’m not going to go further into this because I know the words will trigger the Karen’s. And as I said in my previous post today drinking in Korea is part of our culture we are raised +
To work our way up the chains and to better ourselves... constantly in a work work work and go type of culture starting in elementary school. So drinking is a way for us to unwind and enjoy life. So you to be saying for Ta3 to not drink because it hurts your little feelings +
Is for one completely insensible of you and two selfish he ... unlike you actually works his ass off everyday he isn’t just sitting on his ass thinking of some make believe story to live off of while eating junk food all day long pretending to work. +
So don’t tell him to not drink or to be himself he is a grown ass man if he wants to drink or take shirtless pictures of himself he has every right to. Korean men don’t like women that are controlling and manipulative like you and your mom +
Neither would any Korean mans parents ever let their son marry someone that is like that. Nor would they allow their son to marry a women that consistently assumes and impounds their religious beliefs down their throat that’s extremely disrespectful to them and+
Your religion that you claim to be apart of.
Do you know how it really is to be in a actual relationship you don’t communicate through signals korean men .. and any man for that matter are very physical. Men here do communicate with their lovers Any chance they get.
Do you know how it really is to be in a actual relationship you don’t communicate through signals korean men .. and any man for that matter are very physical. Men here do communicate with their lovers Any chance they get.
So you claiming he contacts you though “signals” is invalid traditional Korean men privately contact their lovers Korea is very advanced when it comes to technology so there’s no reason he wouldn’t find a way to contact you privately considering korean men are +
Typically very private about their love life especially if they are public figures. Or men/People of power so you claiming he wants the world to know about your non existent relationship with him is hilarious which is why no karmy is giving you time of day. +
And they very little that do acknowledge you exist ... like myself .. laugh at you and think of you as gum on the bottom of the shoe.
If you keep up with your facade you created your going to end up dying alone tori and honestly I wouldn’t even feel bad +
If you keep up with your facade you created your going to end up dying alone tori and honestly I wouldn’t even feel bad +
Wake up and face reality and get a life you have absolutely no chance of your delusions being real grow up smh.
There’s much more to say but I’m not going to say it
Goodbye
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There’s much more to say but I’m not going to say it
Goodbye
