--What you are actually claiming when you are saying that 'babygaters' are disrespectful--
1. You are saying that it is disrespectful to believe that L is a good human being that wouldnt abandon his own son.
2. You are saying that it is disrespectful to believe that +

+ Louis 'I cant wait to start a family' Tomlinson would actually be present in his first borns life. Which he is not, and haven't been for years.
3. You are saying that it is disrespectful to believe that L would care enough for his first born to not be exploited to the world +

+ Like he is right now.
4. You are saying that its disrespectful to believe that L is smart enough to get a paternity test (He is a multimillionaire, and in real life people do get paternity tests even if they were in a relationship, BC THAT'S HOW ADULTLIFE WORK!), so you're +

+ Basically saying that you believe L is a gullible, and stupid man for not claiming his right to get a paternity test
5. You are saying that it is disrespectful to believe that L is the kind of parent that would care for their kid of would care for their safety and not let +

+ The kid be paraded around during a pandemic, WITH EXACT LOCATIONS ON MIND YOU!
6. You are saying that it is disrespectful to believe that if that kid was L's he would not let the woman bearing his firstborn, walk around unprotected and at concerts close to fans, and also +

+ That it's disrespectful to believe that he would look genuinely excited when the kid is brought up (newsflash, he didn't look happy or excited at all, and dont even try to argue with me on that)
7. You are saying that its disrespectful to want that child to not be plastered +

+ All over social media and the press.. again... the man who so highly values privacy, why would he allow his own flesh and blood to be paraded around like that?
8. You are saying that it is disrespectful to believe that it's very odd and concerning that the pregnancy was +

+ 'leaked' and confirmed at already 11 weeks (for any younger fans, you rarely tell anyone before past 12 weeks because that's the most fragile time of the pregnancy), and also that the press apparently knew the date of conception? i mean.. +

9. And lastly you are saying that it is disrespectful to actually look critically at the things we're shown which literally EVERYONE should do always bc if we don't, we'll end up following people blindly and not thinking for ourselves.

I agree that that child needs to be +

+ Protected!!!! I've never seen one of us 'babygaters' (ugh i hate that word) claiming to want to harm that child at all, NO! we're trying to point out the things that make zero sense, and that way trying to protect the child. We want that child to be safe and protected AND OUT +

+ OF THE SPOTLIGHT THAT THAT FAMILY IS PUTTING HIM UNDER SINCE BEFORE HE WAS BORN. We want him to be safe and taken care of as much as you do, maybe more idk, but you do not get to tell me that shit during and after the pregnancy doesn't add up! +

+ To finish this off i just want to say - GO READ A MASTERPOST - masterposts in not opinionated, its gathered stuff we've seen during different stages, it is not disrespectful to read masterposts, bc its only purpose is giving an overview of all that happened - so go read thanks

OH also adding this bc facts https://twitter.com/mxsolonghbw/status/1316080562419965955?s=20