Okay real talk tho. How can people seriously just go and "drop" their friends just because they have some "nasty" ships? I don& #39;t get it? Does your friendship only amount that much to you that a simple disconnect over what kind of dynamic you like would ruin it? That& #39;s messed up
Like bro I don& #39;t give a shit if one of my friends enjoy noncon even tho I absolutely fucking loathe it. I can just mute the word and move on. Don& #39;t worry bro we& #39;re cool as long as you don& #39;t talk to me about it. Let& #39;s just talk about the things we both like instead
Okay, actually, I tweeted this because of a more specific problem of people @& #39;ing their mutuals on a call out post saying shit like "hey you& #39;re following this person just thought I& #39;d let warn you so you can block them" because like??? Excuse me that shit is manipulative af.
Like. You can literally DM your mutuals if you& #39;re really THAT concerned. No need to @ them directly to the call out post. That& #39;s manipulative. Or basically in my friend& #39;s words:
I& #39;m not saying you can& #39;t stop befriending someone if you& #39;re actually uncomfortable with them, but again, that just means the friendship doesn& #39;t amount to much. I& #39;m just saying, if your friend doesn& #39;t actually go out of their way to be loud about their "nasty" ships, https://twitter.com/gachakitakoreJK/status/1315875286781628416">https://twitter.com/gachakita...
then why are you yapping? It& #39;s literally none of your business what your friend enjoys in private ESPECIALLY if they already keep you out of it. IT& #39;S ALSO NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS WHO YOUR FRIEND IS ASSOCIATING WITH. It& #39;s literally not your problem if they have "problematic" friends
if you feel THAT uncomfortable being friends with someone who are also friends with "problematic" people then, okay, sure, go ahead and stop being friends with them for the sake of your wellbeing.
BUT IF YOU& #39;RE ONLY DOING SHIT LIKE THAT BECAUSE YOU WANT YOUR FRIENDS TO ONLY ADHERE TO YOUR "RULES" THEN YOU CAN FUCK OFF. THAT IS DISGUSTING AND MANIPULATIVE AS ALL HELL.
Adding this reply I just posted because it& #39;s relevant (okay shit I made a typo it should be "if you& #39;re actually concerned" lol I hate it here) https://twitter.com/eliteglassesers/status/1315880726013730817">https://twitter.com/eliteglas...