i really hope op speaks some kind of latin language because i do and i can tell u that this is mostly false. i am a spanish speaker and in my language its true that certain words are in fact feminine or masculine. for example door (puerta) is feminine and book (libro) is + https://twitter.com/trivianity/status/1315387503906619392

masculine. but these words are objects not adjectives. they arent being use to describe people. op is comparing adjectives to objects and they dont work in the same way. for example perezoso is used to describe a ‘lazy’ male and perezosa is used to describe a ‘lazy’ female. +

these are the same word they are just being conjugated to describe different genders. this is the same for the latin language, illecebro is used to describe an enticing male and illecebra is used to describe an enticing female. jimin chose to ‘tattoo’ the feminine form of this +

adjective on his hand he couldve chosen to put illecebro and it wouldve meant the same thing but instead he chose the one that is used to describe a female.