i dont celebrate #NationalComingOutDay and i regret being a part of this community because this is how bisexuals get treated. absolutely done with this

nothing but bullshit on this app and on the internet. i have never ever felt welcomd

oh now im also a biphobe!!

“erasing my attraction to men” god in heaven when can we talk about anything sapphic without talking about men WHEN CAN WE

also when i talk about being demisexual people tell me it was made up on tumblr and to shut up so you know what absolutely fuck this community entirely

what is the obsession with being queer police? what is it? do you like being the queer dictionary cop?

me, existing as a bisexual on the internet who has read about my history:

"dont reclaim a word that isnt yours"
it isnt my word? im literally just trying to SAY the word i dont even identify as a dyke you fucking weirdos

me: i dont feel safe in this community and if i ever talk about the history i value and that makes me feel welcome, people yell at me

you people:

"why are you fixated on this"

im not! you people put it on my timeline every fucking blessed day

i love told to *checks notes* go back into the closet and that im an ugly cunt

ah apparently theres mystery biphobia, apparently being called a cunt for saying dyke because i happen to like more than one gender is not biphobia

"get the hell out of the hashtag" ah yes the hashtag that is apparently only for some people. not me, the dirty bisexual

"our slurs" do you hear yourself

what biphobia?

in the past hour ive been told to go back in the closet at least twice

what biphobia?

me: id like for people to stop bullying me when i talk about queer history and ask people not to be exclusionary

you: why do you hate lesbians

what biphobia?

my partner isnt cis and is also not a lesbian maybe im not just talking about myself you absolute weirdo

me: i dont feel safe in this community

these people: then leave, you stupid cunt

ive also got people being like "wasnt this person accused of transphobia" bc some r&ylos called me a transphobe for saying it was weird that you called kylo ren your nonbinary uwu baby.

apparently i am a biphobe, a lesbophobe AND a transphobe!

an idiot, a complete waste, a cunt, go back in the closet, just a sample of the shit i have been called over the years, today, in my DMs on this app, on other apps

oh and its not just lesbians. thats the point. i said i dont want to be in this community bc everyone of every fucking identity is always horrific

this is the reaction i got to just saying that bi people can SAY dyke. not identify as dyke, not CALL people dyke. this is also what it looked like when i said that bi/pan people can say butch/femme. it has happened for years. i am tired

dyke discourse is ONE example. i could bring up like 16 others

"i deserve to get jumped"

my partner asked me to delete this thread bc they saw how upset i was getting and they were concerned. i dont want to because i feel like that means exclusionary people win

and when i say its the WHOLE community, buddy it is the ENTIRE community

me, bisexual: hi im going to the dyke march

lesbians, other bisexuals, gay men, other queer people: SHUT THE FUCK UP YOU STUPID CUNT

its just........................seriously wtf

"why do u want to reclaim a slur so bad"

buddy...........lesbian and bisexual and other sapphic people reclaimed it before i was fucking BORN

for some context on the original screenshot in the first tweet: this person replied to me like over a week later on a conversation we had stopped having to harass me about this. when i tell you.....its a weird obsession

for a dollar: has any one of the people coming into my mentions ever heard of stone butch blues

people: this is a word used against lesbians
me: but this word could be used against me, and has been used against bisexual and pansexual people too
people: well go fuck yourself

"rightfully put in your place"
yes, my place as a dirty bisexual. but biphobia doesnt exist

oh so now its schrodinger's dyke!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ooo there you've done it!! you've broken down exclusionary term policing down to its bare essentials!!! transphobia!

i got this and also "lets go doxx her" today so! this has been fun!

me, 1000 times: i dont identify as one, not every lesbian does, not every bi person trying to say it does. just....saying the word thats all, trying to educate on what it means

people: why do u want to identify as the word

me: im just trying to say the word, it's my partner's identity, and there are people of various races and socioeconomic levels i know who also use it, its a little weird to say people cant even say the word at all

people: you're stealing the word! you big meanie!

i said like 16 times i dont even identify as one i just say the word bc i know people who use the identity and people are like ACTUALLY YOURE A DIRTY PERSON bECAUSE YOU FUCK MEN YOU CANNOT SAY THE HALLOWED WORD

now im getting transphobia against my partner, and also that my partner cant say the word. you all sure are a piece of work

i guess i have to say this bc theres people replying who dont know me but oh my god dear christ i would never say the n word why in god's name is that being brought into this it has??? nothing to do with this??? oh my god??? jesus christ

and also dont bring the f slur or the t slur or the R SLUR FOR SOME GODDAMN REASON?!!!! into this...those are VERY different discussions, different histories.....

also this thread started as "heres an example of how u get harassed for being bi" and then it was like suddenly slur discourse

now ive got a ton of people being like SEE GOTCHA EVEN YOUR PARTNER CANT SAY IT i -

lol ok

lol now im getting the "bi people have straight passing privilege" thats a good ol t*rf nugget you all brought outta the woodwork