i dont celebrate #NationalComingOutDay
and i regret being a part of this community because this is how bisexuals get treated. absolutely done with this

nothing but bullshit on this app and on the internet. i have never ever felt welcomd
“erasing my attraction to men” god in heaven when can we talk about anything sapphic without talking about men WHEN CAN WE
also when i talk about being demisexual people tell me it was made up on tumblr and to shut up so you know what absolutely fuck this community entirely
what is the obsession with being queer police? what is it? do you like being the queer dictionary cop?
"dont reclaim a word that isnt yours"
it isnt my word? im literally just trying to SAY the word i dont even identify as a dyke you fucking weirdos
it isnt my word? im literally just trying to SAY the word i dont even identify as a dyke you fucking weirdos
me: i dont feel safe in this community and if i ever talk about the history i value and that makes me feel welcome, people yell at me
you people:
you people:
ah apparently theres mystery biphobia, apparently being called a cunt for saying dyke because i happen to like more than one gender is not biphobia
"get the hell out of the hashtag" ah yes the hashtag that is apparently only for some people. not me, the dirty bisexual
me: id like for people to stop bullying me when i talk about queer history and ask people not to be exclusionary
you: why do you hate lesbians
you: why do you hate lesbians
my partner isnt cis and is also not a lesbian maybe im not just talking about myself you absolute weirdo
ive also got people being like "wasnt this person accused of transphobia" bc some r&ylos called me a transphobe for saying it was weird that you called kylo ren your nonbinary uwu baby.
apparently i am a biphobe, a lesbophobe AND a transphobe!
apparently i am a biphobe, a lesbophobe AND a transphobe!
an idiot, a complete waste, a cunt, go back in the closet, just a sample of the shit i have been called over the years, today, in my DMs on this app, on other apps
oh and its not just lesbians. thats the point. i said i dont want to be in this community bc everyone of every fucking identity is always horrific
this is the reaction i got to just saying that bi people can SAY dyke. not identify as dyke, not CALL people dyke. this is also what it looked like when i said that bi/pan people can say butch/femme. it has happened for years. i am tired
dyke discourse is ONE example. i could bring up like 16 others
my partner asked me to delete this thread bc they saw how upset i was getting and they were concerned. i dont want to because i feel like that means exclusionary people win
me, bisexual: hi im going to the dyke march
lesbians, other bisexuals, gay men, other queer people: SHUT THE FUCK UP YOU STUPID CUNT
lesbians, other bisexuals, gay men, other queer people: SHUT THE FUCK UP YOU STUPID CUNT
"why do u want to reclaim a slur so bad"
buddy...........lesbian and bisexual and other sapphic people reclaimed it before i was fucking BORN
buddy...........lesbian and bisexual and other sapphic people reclaimed it before i was fucking BORN
for some context on the original screenshot in the first tweet: this person replied to me like over a week later on a conversation we had stopped having to harass me about this. when i tell you.....its a weird obsession
for a dollar: has any one of the people coming into my mentions ever heard of stone butch blues
people: this is a word used against lesbians
me: but this word could be used against me, and has been used against bisexual and pansexual people too
people: well go fuck yourself
me: but this word could be used against me, and has been used against bisexual and pansexual people too
people: well go fuck yourself
ooo there you've done it!! you've broken down exclusionary term policing down to its bare essentials!!! transphobia!
me, 1000 times: i dont identify as one, not every lesbian does, not every bi person trying to say it does. just....saying the word thats all, trying to educate on what it means
people: why do u want to identify as the word
people: why do u want to identify as the word
me: im just trying to say the word, it's my partner's identity, and there are people of various races and socioeconomic levels i know who also use it, its a little weird to say people cant even say the word at all
people: you're stealing the word! you big meanie!
people: you're stealing the word! you big meanie!
i said like 16 times i dont even identify as one i just say the word bc i know people who use the identity and people are like ACTUALLY YOURE A DIRTY PERSON bECAUSE YOU FUCK MEN YOU CANNOT SAY THE HALLOWED WORD
now im getting transphobia against my partner, and also that my partner cant say the word. you all sure are a piece of work
i guess i have to say this bc theres people replying who dont know me but oh my god dear christ i would never say the n word why in god's name is that being brought into this it has??? nothing to do with this??? oh my god??? jesus christ
and also dont bring the f slur or the t slur or the R SLUR FOR SOME GODDAMN REASON?!!!! into this...those are VERY different discussions, different histories.....
also this thread started as "heres an example of how u get harassed for being bi" and then it was like suddenly slur discourse
now ive got a ton of people being like SEE GOTCHA EVEN YOUR PARTNER CANT SAY IT i -
lol now im getting the "bi people have straight passing privilege" thats a good ol t*rf nugget you all brought outta the woodwork