Can we use this to have an actual conversation about the disabled men who use their disability as a way of coercing women, typically disabled women! to doing them 'sexual favours', no one wants to talk about it but I always think about it when ppl say disabled ppl r owed sex

Disabled men are men. Way too many of them r extremely bitter about the fact that they can't exercise their God-given right to sexual use of women's bodies on equal terms with able bodied men. That's patriarchy, baby

Also there's the weirdos who think people aren't entitled to have sexual orientations because apparently 'genital preferences' are a sick fetish (but sexual torture kinks are fine!) but maybe we'll save them for another day

No matter how oppressed or left wing you are, no one owes you attraction or sexual access

I have more time than most for listening to the struggles of people who are, in the literal sense of the word, 'incel'. I'm a woman has been rejected by people I wanted to date, we exist, we don't all have sex on tap. The idea that sex is the be all & end all is a myth

What humans do need to survive is social bonds. Sex often fulfils a need for companionship and intimacy. Happily, it's totally possible to access those things without requiring anyone cede their bodily autonomy

I think sex ed needs to address the plight of tfw no gf. What are the alternative, ethical options to coercing women into sexual contact with you or waiting to be allocated a pity fuck? Masturbation? Making some actual friends who make you feel loved?

Like so many people's brains seem to be utterly incapable of comprehending the idea that a dude could go without a freely consenting person giving them sex (usually defined as PIV) without resorting to hiring a SW, raping, or murdering, it's utterly bleak.

If that's your view of men, you hate them. Nothing wrong with man-hating, but it's absurd coming from the type of people who think 'feminism' is a generic social justice movement for no one in particular

When the Yorkshire Ripper (a serial killer who murdered female strangers, many of whom were street prostitutes) was on trial, it was suggested both in the courts & in the press that his wife being a nag could have led to him being frustrated & carrying out the murders.

Women are not the caretakers of men. We should not have to worry that if we aren't subservient sex toys, we or other women will be raped and murdered. That's men's problem. Be better!

There are still ppl to this day who blame the Yorkshire Ripper's wife, Sonia Sutcliffe, for his brutal murders of random female strangers, because she had a 'cold' personality, didn't want kids, wasn't an enthusiastic sexual partner, was disagreeable

See also @volewriter's excellent thread on the woman hating attitudes that allowed Sutcliffe to get away with at least 13 murders before he was finally found by police in Sheffield's red light district.