also re the “sexual mutual aid” concept.... people are attracted to all kinds of people, conventionally attractive or no. i am not sure who this so called class of people who ‘need’ others to provide sexual services without attraction are exactly???

like i’ll grant a lot of people who aren’t like necessarily gross incels have times in their lives where they’re not able to quickly or easily access intimacy they want....

but it seems impossible to say some people are ~unfuckable without implying either that there are physical traits that make people objectively unattractive to literally everyone or that people who alienate sexual partners w bad behavior somehow deserve sexual charity or both

strongly believe anyone who isn’t a fucking freak CAN get laid at some point in their lives, maybe not exactly when they want but