regarding people using different prns for jm

the members use he on jimin so i think that’s safe, & also it’s important to remember not every enby person (if he rly is enby) uses they/them prns or are comfortable w them. so i’m gonna use what i believe is safe so ya

bc there’s the notion that enby = they/them which isn’t true

i think projecting is totally fine bc i do that all the time too, but to only refer to him w those pronouns now imo is assuming that he’s comfortable w those prns which might not be the case

and also, as much as i would love for my idol to be enby like me, he hasn’t explicitly come out yet, so while i agree w projection, pls just keep that in mind especially so cis people don’t overstep bc i feel that coming

btw this is coming from someone who is enby but isn’t always comfortable w they them prns. it’s very uncomfortable and kind of disrespectful when u assume i’m ok w those prns just bc i’m enby so i just recommend avoiding that mindset :/

last thing i’ll say is that i made this tweet solely bc i saw a lot of people referring to him w different pronouns. a lot. i didn’t just make this tweet for no reason. and pls don’t be rude in my qrts or replies this is a touchy subject for me thank u

wait hi one more thing. if u don’t agree w lgbt people projecting onto idols in general, pls don’t try to argue w me, i’m not going to give u my time thank u

can y’all please stop misgendering me ... if u don’t understand my current pronouns then ok just use xe / xem pls don’t use anything else

muting this go argue w the wall and don’t misgender trans people and don’t compare it to “misgendering cis people” bye bye