The only time women seem to claim “You can’t vent to all your friends” is when their friends don’t wanna keep hearing the same shit about a trash relationship they BEEN advised you to walk away from. Which, they’re not wrong for feeling like that cause I agree.

Now all of a sudden you’re judgmental and ‘looking down on them’ because you just would rather not hear about it anymore. Listen sis, I’m the type of friend that’s about action. If you ain’t calling me to come help you pack your things up and leave at this point, don’t call.

At some point, you have to have some regard for your friends. You cant put them in your relationship drama & then be mad when they form a negative opinion on your partner. And even more important, there needs to be more regard and love for self because relationship drama aint it