happy coming out day! gender reveal: trans friendly version time!

im genderfluid

this means that the extent to which i identify with any gender fluctuates over time. sometimes that's over the space of a few weeks, sometimes a few days, and other times even throughout one day. genderfluid is an identity under the non-binary/genderqueer umbrella, and im okay -

with being referred to using any three of these terms - genderfluid is simply a more specific term that more accurately captures my identity, but i do frequently just use non-binary when i don't feel like explaining the nuances of my gender identity.

some genderfluid people are female-aligned or male-aligned, others don't feel aligned to either, and i'm in the latter category. though, of course, by nature of the gender identity, there are days when i feel closer to one binary gender than the other.

i am okay with any pronouns, though i tend to just say they/them for the sake of simplicity. in order of preference, though, i use: they/them, he/him, any neopronouns except for it/its, she/her. (this is not a free pass to make no effort and just call me she all the time.)

regarding being called gendered terms like dude, woman, sis, etc. i don't really feel comfortable with any of the "female" terms. gender-neutral and "male" ones are best, the latter in particular because i am usually perceived as female, so those feel quite validating!

i am still a lesbian because non-binary lesbians exist! they/them, he/him, and neopronoun lesbians exist!

as always, i am happy to explain any of this (in the general sense and specifically to my identity), just reply to this thread or DM me if you have questions or anything.

im happy to engage in discussion as long as you're being respectful and well-meaning. i am willing to explain things and inform people of things, but i won't argue or defend my identity.

now does anyone want 2 adopt me as their baby enby pls this is spoopy