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Doing a bit of reflecting on a rainy day, and wanted share a bit of it. On my journey to relational and emotional health (or at least recognizing what good health looks like), a shift happened for me when, as I looked at patterns of brokenness in my life, (1/)
I shifted from asking, “Why does this keep happening to me?” to “I am the common denominator in all of this.”
And it wasn’t unhealthy blame shifting or self-shaming. Instead, it freed me up to stop seeing myself as a victim of my circumstances and restored my agency... (2/)
And it wasn’t unhealthy blame shifting or self-shaming. Instead, it freed me up to stop seeing myself as a victim of my circumstances and restored my agency... (2/)
and dignity. When I saw I was what all these relationships and situations had in common, I gave myself permission to acknowledge my shortcomings, imperfections, and sin patterns, and only then could I begin doing the necessary work on myself to see changes in my life. (3/)
Self-reflection and honesty with yourself about both your strengths and your flaws can be one of the most humbling but also healthiest decisions you can make.
So, get to know yourself, and don’t be afraid to ask for help. Having burden bearers to share the load is vital. (4/)
So, get to know yourself, and don’t be afraid to ask for help. Having burden bearers to share the load is vital. (4/)
